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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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how do i see my reply rate? by 1986ljg posted 6 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by ThisDancingFool posted Today – 3:49am

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by Wilko_NL posted Yesterday – 9:24am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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your ex by Angela_starfish posted 20 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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My 99% match didn't work out lol by BeTheSelfieOKC posted Yesterday – 9:24pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Why do girls not respond here? by SeriusReader posted 18 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How many dates have you been on from this website? by evilpeterparker posted Feb 17

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Which profile picture should I use? by MsOtis posted 29 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Should I change my orientation to bi? by PunkieBrewer posted Yesterday – 5:42am


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Systemgrasy is uglier than Loopay and the chick in my pics put together IRL by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 8:23pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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When You Are Young by thekochbro posted Today – 6:06am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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How come basically no women on OK Cupid like video games? by TryUsingBees posted Today – 11:22am


Discussions about life and love.

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In this thread, EVERY post is Interesting by BiggestCockEver posted 17 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by Bananastand4k posted Feb 24

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Watersports fetish by booksrecordscats posted Feb 24

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by sandyvs posted 15 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by Henry_1337 posted Yesterday – 6:16am