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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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What happens if one's profile is "100% complete?" by bukuwawa posted

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's going on in Flagmod? by lastgoodmanhere posted

Match Questions

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Is there a God? by MerAngel2112 posted

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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I hope I don't miss the bus again today. by ijustwantfunlif posted

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Man, I think everyone on here just has way too high of standards by idjitbang posted

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Why don't women like NICE GUYS? by cf-okc posted

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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is the person above you good-looking or beautiful? by snelson_87 posted

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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What are big red flags about women's profiles? by notamallwalker posted

Discussions
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Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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BBW needs advice from other BBW's or Californian men by CPT_Caveman posted

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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What does your room tell you by Slacker_Idol posted

Sexuality

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ITT we discuss how much the old fogie surfgodx wants to be like me. by bailaileen posted

LGBTQ

Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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What song are you listening to right now? by Alex_Euphitone posted

General

Discussions about life and love.

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one of us has to GTFO! by Kair posted

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SPORT by greeneyed-witch posted

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Full Body Zentai Suits by Pieper85 posted

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Describe the Person above you using ONE word. Just one. by Suvikki posted

Get Togethers
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Potential Meetups

Want to gauge interest in your area or see what dates the people in your area would like to meet? Post here.

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SF poly gathering by MisterAMB posted

Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Worst date with someone you met online by ibit_ziur89 posted

Upcoming Meetups

This is the place to post meetups with specifics. If you've already picked a date, time, and venue (or you're looking to go to a meetup in your area, and want details) post here.

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Opelika, AL Meetup - March 10, 2010 @ 6pm by lansmom posted