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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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What do you say to women when you message them so that they can message you back? by captainmorgan_ posted

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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Your Top 3 FAQ Questions? by dumas712 posted

Match Questions

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Would you consider your bf/gf leaving out details because you "didn't ask" appropriate? by notreal314 posted

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Chop of the crop by jolie_femme posted

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Fun low budget ideas for Dates. in this economy Flirting shouldn't be Expensive! by Andalusiano posted

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Fail: Guys can't hang because I have a kid by Idntlikeudork2 posted

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Is a night playing video games (with your date, not just yourself) considered a date? by benzilla1 posted

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Is having to live with my parents the touch of death? by captainmorgan_ posted

Discussions
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Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Why?! by BillyBoy64 posted

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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My Grandma is an OBAMANAZI! by octane1980 posted

Sexuality

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why the fuck is every asshole so mean in this place?!!!! God damn son of a bitch!!!!! by Surfgodx posted

LGBTQ

Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Tim Tebow... by dgbdc posted

General

Discussions about life and love.

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Facebook Gold Account by Omerta706 posted

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Your Profile Completion by jackjackattack3 posted

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Any furries in the house? by crittergrl posted

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by Fuzzynuts2008 posted

Get Togethers
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Potential Meetups

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road trip buddy by alureicantdeny posted

Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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profile review by poeticwarrior3d posted

Upcoming Meetups

This is the place to post meetups with specifics. If you've already picked a date, time, and venue (or you're looking to go to a meetup in your area, and want details) post here.

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San Diego - Valentines Weekend Meetup - Saturday Feb 13, 2010 - Hyatt Mission Bay by 1800paul posted