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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Quickmatch & Visitors by Limetree_Avenue posted Today – 11:36am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by Lorry posted Today – 10:17am

Match Questions

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How soon do you give out your real name to a person? by AirCupid posted Today – 9:43am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Blocking a browser? Seriously? by Chaeddd posted Today – 10:50am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Dogs in heat by PlayNicePlease posted Yesterday – 1:52pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Asian humour? Does it even exist? by DiscoJer posted Today – 11:09am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by Mathman1ca posted Apr 17

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Requesting a Critique, Please! by Pufflekun posted Apr 18

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Can we have a Transgender Option? by Jythexinvok posted Apr 18


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ladies Please rate me on facile feature on scal of 1 to 10 by squigless posted Today – 6:50am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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If you knew there was a way to have eternal life. would you take it? by ultramafic_ posted Today – 7:56am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Enough about sad movies... Movies that make you laugh by La-Ritournelle posted 18 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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NICE NUMBERS by La-Ritournelle posted Today – 10:55am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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best punk rock song ever by bigburpboy posted Apr 6

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Instant profile 'deal breakers'? by AirCupid posted Yesterday – 5:23am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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ABC...word game: Another Agonizing Attempt At Anything by AirCupid posted 10 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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New Authentic Speed Dating Meetup in Austin, Texas by squigless posted Apr 17