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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Do you see a persons race as another flower but just a different color? by deadly_taco posted

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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My Ideal Homepage Has ____ by onimatrix posted

Match Questions

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How would you react if you discovered your date was carrying a concealed weapon (e.g. gun, knife)? by Altair_4 posted

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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ATTN MEN, DON'T MESSAGE ZOMBIE_TWATZ by imgoodatsex posted

Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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FAIL - Huge fat beast is stalking me by defysys posted

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why should the guy want more than sex? by Wizzorox posted

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Separated but not Divorced - how to articulate? by PoolAndMusic posted

Discussions
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Sexuality

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What quirks do you have that you think turns people off? by 101rach1e posted

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Trials and Tribulations of Going against the norm by greyeyedqueen posted

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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"Hot or Not: Ladies less likely to agree" by nimdabew posted

LGBTQ

Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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grade the person above 1-10 just based on their appearance. by hisprettylilpet posted

General

Discussions about life and love.

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Interracial Dating... by Steven_84 posted

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Comments on peoples' quizzes by marinaab posted

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Speaking by floweringthorn posted

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Using a single word only, tell us what you'd do in bed to the person above you. by shyguy3437 posted

Get Togethers
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Potential Meetups

Want to gauge interest in your area or see what dates the people in your area would like to meet? Post here.

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craving sex in Lansing mi by SaraMichelle posted

Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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OKMeetup SUCCESS STORIES by sfguyyy posted

Upcoming Meetups

This is the place to post meetups with specifics. If you've already picked a date, time, and venue (or you're looking to go to a meetup in your area, and want details) post here.

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Orlando Meet Up -- Saturday, July 25th by oddball72 posted

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