flutgos

Dec 28, 2012

Rant: So yesterday I visited a profile of a girl yesterday who was pretty good looking and seemed to have a lot in common with me. Her profile stated that she is sick of meeting jerks and is just looking for a nice guy. She initiated a conversation with me after I visited her profile. She gave me her number almost immediately so I proceeded to text her. She is in Florida for vacation so I first commented about how Florida sounds really nice and that there is currently 5 inches of snow where I live (Ohio). She replies with "hiiiii." I don't really know how to reply to that so I just say "So...what's up?"

We finally start talking about random things and get to know each other a little bit. I found out that her birthday is five days from mine and that she teaches school in the same town that I attended 1st-3rd grade. We seem to hit it off a bit.

Out of nowhere she then tells me that her day has been really stressful because she is on her period and that she had a uti. I tell her that I don't really mind her telling me that but that she probably shouldn't tell people things like that that she has known for a whole ten hours. I started getting sick yesterday so I proceeded to tell her that I wasn't feeling well either.

Before I go to bed I ask her if she is feeling any better. She didn't reply so I thought that it was over right there. I made one last ditch effort this morning and asked again how she was doing. She said that she was doing okay. 

Right after that she tells me to send her a "pictaaaa" and asks if I have snapchat. I tell her that I don't and I didn't want to send her a picture because I am pretty sick and am not looking that great at the moment. I told her that I left work early today because I wasn't feeling good. She replies, "Who cares." I reply with "lol me" and thought that was the end of it. She seemed pretty mad about me not sending a picture to her for some reason.

Five hours later I get a text from her saying "ok ur boring me." I said "sorry" and she says "yup bye." That was the end of her texts but I had to say something to her about the way she was acting. I have never interacted with someone so odd and selfish in my life. I finally said to her "You're not going to meet a nice guy being like that just so you know." 

I just had to rant and tell somebody about this. I have never experienced something like this. I don't understand how anybody could act that way. Has anybody encountered such characters on here? 

SillySmartie

Dec 28, 2012

You probably should learn to screen better.

unassuming_guy

Dec 28, 2012

And people wonder why parents choose to homeschool their kids.

smashingmayo

Dec 28, 2012

didn't reasd the OP, but can assume this is about silly, susie, nsert, etc...
unassuming_guy

Dec 28, 2012

when you assume, you make an ass of u and me

Kair

Dec 28, 2012

Rant: So yesterday I visited a profile of a girl yesterday who was pretty good looking and seemed to have a lot in common with me. Her profile stated that she is sick of meeting jerks and is just looking for a nice guy. She initiated a conversation with me after I visited her profile. She gave me her number almost immediately so I proceeded to text her. She is in Florida for vacation so I first commented about how Florida sounds really nice and that there is currently 5 inches of snow where I live (Ohio). She replies with "hiiiii." I don't really know how to reply to that so I just say "So...what's up?"

We finally start talking about random things and get to know each other a little bit. I found out that her birthday is five days from mine and that she teaches school in the same town that I attended 1st-3rd grade. We seem to hit it off a bit.

Out of nowhere she then tells me that her day has been really stressful because she is on her period and that she had a uti. I tell her that I don't really mind her telling me that but that she probably shouldn't tell people things like that that she has known for a whole ten hours. I started getting sick yesterday so I proceeded to tell her that I wasn't feeling well either.

Before I go to bed I ask her if she is feeling any better. She didn't reply so I thought that it was over right there. I made one last ditch effort this morning and asked again how she was doing. She said that she was doing okay. 

Right after that she tells me to send her a "pictaaaa" and asks if I have snapchat. I tell her that I don't and I didn't want to send her a picture because I am pretty sick and am not looking that great at the moment. I told her that I left work early today because I wasn't feeling good. She replies, "Who cares." I reply with "lol me" and thought that was the end of it. She seemed pretty mad about me not sending a picture to her for some reason.

Five hours later I get a text from her saying "ok ur boring me." I said "sorry" and she says "yup bye." That was the end of her texts but I had to say something to her about the way she was acting. I have never interacted with someone so odd and selfish in my life. I finally said to her "You're not going to meet a nice guy being like that just so you know." 

I just had to rant and tell somebody about this. I have never experienced something like this. I don't understand how anybody could act that way. Has anybody encountered such characters on here? 

Why do you care so much when it's obvious you yourself weren't that interested in the girl in the first place?

unassuming_guy

Dec 28, 2012

at least he was pretty sure that she was a girl

flutgos

Dec 29, 2012

I was interested in her at first. She replied to me this morning say that she was just kidding...haha what?!

Informavore

Dec 29, 2012

Her profile stated that she is sick of meeting jerks and is just looking for a nice guy.

This is right behind "hates drama" as a sign that they bring things on themselves.

missdewey

Dec 29, 2012

She sounds immature, especially for a teacher. Are you sure it was an adult that you were talking to, and not a sock by some young, dumb teenager?

smashingmayo

Dec 29, 2012

clearly, dewey doesn't pay attention here. I haven't read the Op, still, but seriously how could ANYONE be more childish than some of the posters on ehre susch as silly, nyamuk, etc??????
MsOtis

Dec 29, 2012

Possibly:

1. She wants to know if you'll send a pic and get on Snapchat because she's a sex bot - have your credit card ready.

2. She says she's 22, but she's really 17.

3. Her convos sound disjointed because she's talking with a bunnnnnnch of guys at one time.

 

flutgos

Dec 29, 2012

She's not a bot and I'm pretty sure she's telling the truth about her age. She may be talking to a lot of guys though. I don't think she knows how to interact very well either. 

MsOtis

Dec 29, 2012

I'm very curious. How do you know she's not a bot?

Or telling the truth about her age?

Have you met her?

smashingmayo

Dec 29, 2012

I think that would be legal in ohio, anyway, otis, but i'm too lazy to check for you.
MsOtis

Dec 29, 2012

^ what legal? I didn't say anything about "illegal."

My point is that the OP believes the person behind the profile to be a certain person, and I'm suggesting that his assumptions might be fooling him.

flutgos

Dec 29, 2012

It is pretty easy to tell when it is a bot. Bots normally reply fairly quickly to messages, wouldn't have an okcupid profile linked to a phone number, and aren't very specific in their replies. As for the age I am not 100% sure but her profile is pretty lengthy and she gives very detailed information in which bots don't normally do. I don't think a bot would know the name of my elementary school from 18 years ago that no longer exists.

phyxius

Dec 29, 2012

It has been my experience that the people I have talked to on here and other sites have been pretty much who they say they are (not including 419ers and camwhores, but they are pretty obvious).

flutgos

Dec 29, 2012

I have been on here for a while now and I can't remember a bot ever sending a message to me. Bots usually have almost nude supermodels as their profile pictures, are interested in casual sex and will have a link posted on their profile that links to a cam site.

unassuming_guy

Dec 29, 2012

It's time for my 419.

It would be 420, but I'm not inhaling.

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