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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Messages not sending? by nabajour posted Yesterday – 7:45pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 10:12pm

Match Questions

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MyDatery.Com by roxxr posted Yesterday – 12:40am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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I was told girls wanted sex on the first meet up... by takemeifyoumust posted Yesterday – 7:27pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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How to spot a fake profile? by SeriusReader posted Yesterday – 5:01am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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why women don't respond when not interested by SeriusReader posted Yesterday – 6:41pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What do I suggest we do? by ctsnola posted Nov 26

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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My profile is difficult by ctsnola posted Yesterday – 10:15pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Demisexuality by Keikuri posted Nov 25


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Yesterday – 5:49pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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CWESQ's Trial Balloon by CWESQ posted Nov 26

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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How early is "too early," to have sex when pursuing a relationship? by ChineseAcrobat posted Yesterday – 8:03am


Discussions about life and love.

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The Random Observation Thread by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 6:57pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by Jackie_tack posted Nov 24

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Cluckholding by BiggestCockEver posted Nov 26

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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What song are you listening to RIGHT NOW? by radant posted Nov 26

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1