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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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how to report scammers by Sapiosenses posted Today – 11:43am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Today – 11:39am

Match Questions

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Do you think taxes are justified? by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 8:39pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Favorites Online? by CaroCrow posted Yesterday – 4:32pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Feature request: mark sent message so A-List users can see if they were deleted unread by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 10:22am

Only A-List members are allowed to view and post in this section.

Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Failure.. or was I not "tolerant" enough? by PunkieBrewer posted Today – 9:32am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by TryUsingBees posted May 20

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Is it true that "selfies = bad" and "social pics = good"? by PunkieBrewer posted Today – 8:58am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Why are some gay dudes so annoying and creepy? by andyisgreen posted Today – 8:45am


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Out of left field by Sapiosenses posted Just now!

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Scientists have uncovered why hipsters grow beards by CSNY111 posted May 14

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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So how do I ask my neighbor out and start dating her? by Sapiosenses posted 35 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Would you use Auto-Replies? by Sapiosenses posted Today – 1:19pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Instant profile 'deal breakers'? by nowavenoise posted Yesterday – 4:43pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Sapiosenses posted 13 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the point of this section? by kriegasaurusrex posted Apr 27