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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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messages arrived after 8 months!! by kefsucks posted Today – 2:00am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by TryingagaininVT posted Today – 4:01am

Match Questions

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Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own skin color / racial background? by MetroTonPanton posted Yesterday – 3:19pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Bring back mandatories! by Sushibitch posted 10 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Age: is anyone telling the truth? Or conversely would anyone dare to lie? by sandyvs posted Sep 28

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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How to get a date with a guy from Okcupid! by DCBorderGuard posted Today – 5:56am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Would you rather a guys smile in their profile yes or no? by sandyvs posted Sep 28

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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7 months, almost no replies, no dates. by Sushibitch posted Today – 5:49am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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looking for straigth shemales by Shannon1981_B posted Sep 26


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS by Lisarey posted Yesterday – 11:20pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Don't feed the yao guai. by palacsintak posted Sep 27

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Why do people feel the need to ask someone about their past relationships? by MsOtis posted Today – 2:50am


Discussions about life and love.

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The Random Observation Thread by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 4:44am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Bonny & Clyde Test by N3buKadN3zar posted Sep 12

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Instant profile 'deal breakers'? by Shannon1981_B posted Sep 26

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by sandyvs posted Today – 5:47am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Portland Oregon meet up by LakeOFthoughts posted Sep 25