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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Pictures change in search results of my profile. by Sapiosenses posted Today – 6:52pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by LibertyW posted Today – 4:40pm

Match Questions

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How many continents are there? by corn_dog_soup posted Yesterday – 7:35am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Pictures change in search results of my profile, only my main picture should be shown! by ToFLL posted Today – 6:37pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by dernhelm_rides posted Today – 2:25pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Post the worst im's ever!!!! by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 8:02am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by amp-here posted Mar 23

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Feedback for an unusual profile of an unusual guy by sarahbop posted 26 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Using only a movie title, answer the question from the person above you. by eat-pray-die posted Mar 24


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Yesterday – 10:08am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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What's your worst experience to stalk or being stalked by Fuyun posted Today – 12:22am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Feeling a bit apathetic by Rodney69 posted Today – 5:50pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Boston/Maine in July 2015 by lady_sybarite posted 8 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Things that Cannot be eaten with Chopstix by roxxr posted Yesterday – 5:10am

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Why are most poly people on here fat, into video games, renfaires, and wiccan? by dernhelm_rides posted Today – 5:16pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Pearls that made your day by Sewickleytron posted Today – 4:39pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Worst date with someone you met online by Pirate_Opie posted Mar 18

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Older women looking for younger men by Rodney69 posted Today – 6:29pm