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23 / m / Bisexual Eugene, Oregon
Dec 3, 2012
Men are expected to be direct, women are expected to be subtle
(Dare I say, indirect).
I'm not saying one is inherently better, or that all people have
universal expectations of the same or opposite sex, but it's a
trend I've noticed.
What's wrong with this comment?
36 / m / Straight Germantown, Tennessee
48 / m / Straight Chicago, Illinois
For starters, you gave her the payoff all women crave: you
cuddled before you had sex. Big mistake.
If there is to be any cuddling at all, it should not occur until
after you've had sex.
That is all.
Oh, I thought this thread was going to be about climbing the
OP, i've heard a lot of tales like this - the very, very long
first date followed by silence. I think spending too much time
together on a first date might be not such a great idea. It can be
a wild ride followed immediately be a crash and burn.
Take things a little more slowly. Build up to the longer
Has to do something with letting our bodies become familiar with
the other, which takes a little longer than our minds,
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