AuburnDusk

Dec 3, 2012

Men are expected to be direct, women are expected to be subtle (Dare I say, indirect).

I'm not saying one is inherently better, or that all people have universal expectations of the same or opposite sex, but it's a trend I've noticed.

smashingmayo

Dec 3, 2012

or dare you say fake and dishonest. :p
Swampy65

Dec 3, 2012

For starters, you gave her the payoff all women crave: you cuddled before you had sex. Big mistake.

If there is to be any cuddling at all, it should not occur until after you've had sex.

That is all.

MsOtis

Dec 3, 2012

Oh, I thought this thread was going to be about climbing the Himalayans.

OP, i've heard a lot of tales like this - the very, very long first date followed by silence. I think spending too much time together on a first date might be not such a great idea. It can be a wild ride followed immediately be a crash and burn. 

Take things a little more slowly. Build up to the longer dates.

Has to do something with letting our bodies become familiar with the other, which takes a little longer than our minds, apparently.

 

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