unassuming_guy

Feb 9, 2013

sandyvs

Feb 9, 2013

"He invited me to a picnic. Said he will bring fruits and chocolate (on Venus altar?). I’ve volunteered to bring tea and muffins. Location:"

THAT is so cool! Can't wait to hear your version of the date and wish I could hear his.



corn_dog_soup

Feb 9, 2013

If someone is the same age or age group as my sons, I just can't do something with them, other than be friends. It feels 'icky' to me.

 

Wanna get icky with me, Sandy?

Tulefel

Feb 9, 2013

There are sticky rollers that should collect fur

 

Oh, the first thing he did was to eat up the sticky roller  :)

 

unassuming_guy

Feb 9, 2013

^ is this 29-year-old a doggy?

sandyvs

Feb 9, 2013

Wanna get icky with me, Sandy?

 

NO, screwball, but you'd be Hella fun to party with!


Tulefel

Feb 9, 2013

Can't wait to hear your version of the date and wish I could hear his.

 

Well… here’s my version:

 

I picked him up there we agreed to meet and drove to the sea. Then I’ve done what I haven’t done for ages and he took a few pictures. After that he pointed out a place on the rocks that he said was more protected from the snow – it was -4 and snowing slightly, but almost no wind – we settled there, drunk tea and ate muffins and fruits, and talked. Then snow started to fall heavier and we left. The whole thing took ca 2 hours.

 

And yes, I’d also like to hear his version :)

 

Divis1onbyzer0

Feb 9, 2013

i wont date anyone over the age of 28

Tulefel

Feb 10, 2013

Yes, was the first that crossed my mind too. But then I decided to treat the subject liberally – plus/minus a year isn’t worth much ado, is it?

:)

sandyvs

Feb 10, 2013

Very nice, Tule! So...you'll see him again?

Tulefel

Feb 10, 2013

We agreed to meet next Saturday. But…

 

He’s everything I’d wish in my date, only if he wasn’t that young. It doesn’t feel gross anymore (thanks for all support), but it doesn’t feel tempting either. There is a psychological barrier, rather a wall to put it straight, that I don’t want to climb over.

 

My first intention was to follow with the tide and let him lead this ship to harbour completely on his own. If he’s that enthusiastic. If he decided to jump the ship, I wouldn’t pursue the matter, neither would I take over the bridge. Changed my mind after the date. He’s a nice human being, didn’t do me anything wrong and it would be unfair to treat him in any other way, but straight. I’m going to tell him that there will be no relationship. Easier to do it on the net, fairer – in person.

 

Don’t know how men manage to convince themselves, that a relationship with a women who age-wise could’ve been their daughter, is fine. I can’t. But again, I’m not a man.

 

DrGeniusWiener

Feb 10, 2013

We convince ourselves about all sorts of things, Miss Tuleful.

Just like you do.

 

Tulefel

Feb 11, 2013

Oh? Very intriguing… Would like to share the wisdom?  :)

 

DrGeniusWiener

Feb 11, 2013

Frankly, I've pretty much already done that on this thread, Miss Tulefel.

Sorry to hear your younger suitor situation didn't work out.

sandyvs

Feb 12, 2013

Tulefel, could it be that there was just no chemistry for you? That it wasn't an age thing, but that you just had a nice date with a nice person that you would rather be friends with than sleep with?

unassuming_guy

Feb 12, 2013

She has to simply ask herself if she would have felt differently if he were her age.

If she's judging a person she likes mostly because of a number she might be cheating herself.

ebb_isanalias

Feb 12, 2013

Or worse, she might be fucking herself!

Swampy65

Feb 13, 2013

I haven't seen anyone accused of being one step away from a pedophile for being interested in a 29 year old.

How about a 40 year old going out with a 20 year old? Or a 38 year old going out with an 18 year old, or better yet a 17 year old where it's legal?

The general consensus among women on this site that if there is any significant age gap between an older man and younger woman, then it's "creepy" and yes, I have heard a couple of you start playing the pedophile card.

But if it's an older woman going after a younger man then it's "Hey, you go girl, get your Cougar on!!".

Just one more double standard hypocrisy put forth by the females on OkStupid, and women in general.

sandyvs

Feb 13, 2013

^I said a twenty-nine year old.

Swampy65

Feb 13, 2013

I heard what you said and qualified it by other examples, you fucking illiterate dumbass.

 

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