smashingmayo

Dec 30, 2012

jealous is also old.
moonfairysexy

Jan 1, 2013

Dude,  you were talking to a scammer, not a real profile.   A fake profile.  Isn't it obvious?   You're totally naive.  You need to sit dating out a while until you learn a few ropes.  Want to see what scammer emails look like?  Go to craiglist, and post any ad saying anything to the "Casual encounters section".  Hint: There is no one in casual encounters seeking casual encounters.  Its a honey pot to trap emails of the gullible and greedy, chat them up with robot text at first, then someone real... and get you either to sign up for a craigslistverifier site for $1, or scam you out of far more money other ways.

But really, what is going to kill you hard core, is your shallow approach....  "So yesterday I visited a profile of a girl yesterday who was pretty good looking... "   Bam.  You've failed already.

How about this.  Why don't you ask out a girl who is not good looking?   I'm serious.  Date what you consider, an ugmo.

You may be surprised.   The not nice looking girls...   some of them, well, all of them, are painfully aware they are not nice looking, so they compensate and compete for you in other ways... like with something actually valuable, that doesn't fade with time... a heart of gold.  

And that mustache?  It comes right off with hair removal creme.  What's underneath?  Treasure.  ;-)

~

Do you know what a barn find is?  I'm not talking about a cow or a pig in a barn, or a girl that looks like a pig (rolls eyes).  

I'm talking about an old, classic car, that someone parked in a barn 50 years ago, neglected, and forgot about.  That is a barn find.  Its the holy grail, its what all car guys look for.  And you discover it.  It doesn't run, its covered in dust, the tires have rotted off, but that sucker to you, is a million bucks.  Because its a classic.  Its treasure.  It can be restored.  

Your flaw is you're walking into the Ferrari dealership, and saying hey, I'm a rich and handome guy in my own mind, that F-40 over there looks just like my kind of car, lets chat the salesman up!   You do so, he runs your credit check, and shows you the door.  And you're like, that was rude!   Wrong.    Wrong approach.  You are a slave to your eyes.

You want happiness?  Go to a junkyard.  Find a neglected treasure.  She may be beat up, she may have cobwebs, she may need lots of TLC.   But under that dust, she's a classic.   And you bring her back to life with some love, she will rock your world.  Hardcore.  And you'll treasure her more than any Ferrari any rich man bought off any factory show room floor.

You want the same kind of happiness in a relationship, and to score with a woman?  Search for your barn find...  overlooked treasure.  She's hidden, and she's got cobwebs.  Nobody ever chats her up.  Nobody ever asks her out.   Say hi to her, ask her out, rock her world!  Be the hero!   Be the guy with real class.   Be a gentleman and take her out and have a wonderful time together.

 

I'm right, and you know it.

mintcandy

Jan 2, 2013

SillySmartie sez:

::::Learn to screen better. Also realize that if a woman is actually interested in you, and is a woman that's worth dating she will not:

  • Play manipulative waiting games.
  • Be difficult to get along with.
  • Half-assed participate in conversation.

When a woman is truly interested in a guy, and she's not a manipulative drama llama, she will:

  • Participate fully in conversation.
  • Be open and receptive to conversation and date suggestions.:::::

:: Man, okc's forum protocols are seriously lame. Why is it so damn hard to quote a list? ::

^What SillySmartie sez. Words are cheap, behavior is not. Judge people on what they do, not what they say. Also, texting is lame, but not nearly as lame as drama caused by texting.

flutgos

Jan 3, 2013

I came back to this thread just to see all of the stupid replies. For some reason, everybody thinks that I made this thread because I wanted the girl. Her profile seemed nice so I started talking to her. I didn't just message her because of her looks. It didn't take long before she just seemed weird and saying things that turned me off. I was no longer interested at that point. I just wanted to tell everyone the odd story. Stop giving me fucking advice on girls. That's not what this was about.

Rodney69

Jan 3, 2013

What's with the fedora bashing? I know some lovely people who wear fedoras, both men and women.

Nyamuk

Jan 3, 2013

Well you were clearly worked up enough to make a thread about it and say, pretty much, that she was losing out by not meeting "nice guy" like you. No sense in calling people "stupid" when they're just trying to help out.

smashingmayo

Jan 3, 2013

you mean like how you and silly constantly make threads making fun of guys, mocking guys, bashing guys, etc...? justtttttttt sayinggg.
Nyamuk

Jan 3, 2013

Again, I have to ask you Mayo... why do you think that making fun of particular guys is "bashing guys" in general? Do you think all guys are awful? Why do you hate men so much?

MsOtis

Jan 3, 2013

A guy makes a thread to say how some girl acted weird. 

Wow. Unique.

smashingmayo

Jan 3, 2013

Exactly, otis, how unique of silly and nyamuk to make threads bashing specific guys all the time. And her later post is even more nuts than her bashing.
pseupseudio

Jan 3, 2013

the OP is a goddamn numbskull.

why the fuck are you posting here, you miserable sachet of secondhand douche water?

smashingmayo

Jan 3, 2013

SOunds like someone else is miserable.
NormalGuy123

Jan 22, 2013

Red flag #1: Attractive girl initiates conversation. You must be new at this.

pseupseudio

Jan 22, 2013

^ that is not at all out of the ordinary.

CLacourt

Jan 22, 2013

"I can't find a nice guy."  That's BS.  A pretty girl can't find a nice guy that's because she's utterly stupid.

tv-kenny

Jan 24, 2013

Her profile stated that she is sick of meeting jerks and is just looking for a nice guy

Red flag, hope you learned something

amp-here

Jan 25, 2013

Her profile stated that she is sick of meeting jerks and is just looking for a nice guy.

This is right behind "hates drama" as a sign that they bring things on themselves.

She's a gamer, you should have noted the signs and ran unless she offered anything that takes more of your time than quick sex.  And that's assuming she's actually a real (not fake) profile...

   The only success I've had with such women is as FWBs making a point not to talk about anything emotional with them.  They have no patience for anything else...and neither should you; for if you stay around they will start loading out their drama on you until you collapse.

  This is one of those odd situations where you may actually benefit from being a douche and saying something like "Do you have a pic?  I feel like a fix this Friday" and make it obvious that if she doesn't do everything at your convenience, you'll find someone else who will.  This should get her the message (even if she's a fake) that you're not up to hang around and listen to her (drama) and not playing her game, at best, get you a good-looking-women for some easy sex.

 

  P.S. - Despite popular knowledge I actually have met a few women far out of my league who did start conversations with me...although I'll admit it's the exception, not the norm.  Such women, admittedly, are often ones with towering insecurities and they will often go after anyone they feel they can't get trying to figure out "what's wrong with them he doesn't like/want me?!".  If you're a good kisser, you'll end up in bed with her, and if you're good at that, she'll visit you at least a handful more times.  But don't expect her to be a stable mate, in public or elsewhere...treat it as a game and keep your heart out of it...but it's a great way to get easy practice sexually.

Mistaahh_T

Jan 25, 2013

that sucks dude, dont listen to everybody, good rant tho lol and shit happens 

she was on her period, some girls just get unstable on that time of the month but who knows lol. good luck!

newinsm

Jan 25, 2013

All of this talk about completely blaming her for this (and fake profile/bot) is totally missing the more likely picture of what happened.

The OP is a very good-looking guy, so a young decent-looking girl got fairly aggressive about knowing him at the start (this is common.)    She then finds out that he is boring and acts like a douche (saying things like "you shouldn't tell people about this or that", turning down the snapchat request, having no other conversation starters other than "how are you feeling", apologizing for being boring, and then once again telling her how to act after she eventually rejects him.)     This caused her to quickly get turned off and want him to go away.

Regardless of how legitimate her "I want a nice guy" claims are or whatever else may have been troubling about her, the core of the problem with this communication was with him.  

 

 

OfPaleBlueDot

Jan 31, 2013

How laughable that you call someone else childish, Mr. Smashingmayo.  Look in the mirror.  I've been looking at some of your posts, brother, and let me tell you, anyone who uses personal attacks as often as you do, or just says "you're wrong" before proceeding to rant, is truly a child when it comes to social interaction.  It really is quite impossible to have a civilized debate with someone like you who is nothing but a child himself.  Just so you and everyone else here knows that my silent does not constitute my assent, I assure you that I will respond to nothing you say for it will surely be completely unproductive until you have reformed your uncivilized demeanor.  Let's also set the record straight that I am in no way defending Nyamuk, nor do I have any personal relationship to her.

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