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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Boosts being used automatically! Why? by Seasideclown posted Today – 5:07pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by nothedoctor posted Today – 7:33am

Match Questions

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How many continents are there? by Freethinkie posted Yesterday – 8:18pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Anyone ever see a girl in decent shape who didn't have a red dot? by Rodney69 posted Today – 7:05am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by HowdoIcomputers posted Mar 24

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Does anybody any success or is the website that Shallow? by bluecglass posted Today – 1:32pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by amp-here posted Mar 23

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Curious to get everyone's perspective on my profile by mrkotfw posted Today – 4:38pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Using only a movie title, answer the question from the person above you. by eat-pray-die posted Mar 24


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the glutton olymics by Angela_starfish posted Mar 21

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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What's your worst experience to stalk or being stalked by Fuyun posted Yesterday – 1:55pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Busty women by TryUsingBees posted Today – 4:24pm


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Today – 3:02am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Things that Cannot be eaten with Chopstix by Mask_and_Mirror posted Mar 23

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Why are most poly people on here fat, into video games, renfaires, and wiccan? by Rodney69 posted Today – 6:55am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by takemeifyoumust posted Today – 6:40pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Worst date with someone you met online by Pirate_Opie posted Mar 18

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Older women looking for younger men by Fuyun posted Mar 22