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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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How do I shut off the new header? by roxxr posted Today – 6:09pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Apr 13

Match Questions

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You are having a relaxing evening reading emails, when your cat wipes his ass on your undershirt, while you are wearing it, leaving a trail of dookie across your chest. You: by slaveyy posted Apr 15

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Rave: You never know how undesirable you are until you hit that boost profile button by ctsnola posted 44 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by _sarah_smiles_ posted Yesterday – 5:53pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Failure.. or was I not "tolerant" enough? by ctsnola posted Today – 6:09pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Anyone ever ass-fuck a girl on the first date? by NoFatties4MePlz posted Yesterday – 11:55pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Review My Profile ( i get no hits) by ctsnola posted Today – 6:46pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Barely Any Lesbians by Neequxsan posted Today – 5:58pm


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Apr 13

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Having a New Home by Dad777-4u posted Apr 5

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Ghosting by roxxr posted Today – 5:26am


Discussions about life and love.

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Where did all the OKC forum traffic go? by Different_Animal posted Today – 8:00pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by controversyatx posted Apr 4

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Strapon/Pegging: A discussion of interest by sosowrong posted Today – 9:57am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by takemeifyoumust posted Today – 7:22pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Any Californians still here?? (Esp NorCal) [drops pin] by Sapiosenses posted Apr 12