“The Google of
online dating”
— The Boston Globe
“Completely free”
— TIME
“A favorite hangout
for internet goers”
— The Village Voice
“A perfect example
of the Web 2.0 revolution”
— New York Post
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BBW/BHM SINGLES
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Does it bother anyone else that the term "BBW" (and "BHM," I guess) is applied to all overweight people? It seems like being a BW doesn't neccesarily make you a BBW. |
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what is a bhm icon and how do i become one |
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BHM? Big hot male? Big heavy man? Beautiful heavy man? Butt hurt man?
v boring |
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Big Handsome Man, if parallel structure is any indication. |
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well i just ate a huge roast dinner in about 8 mins, so i'm well on my way |
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I always thought BBW stood for Big-Bodied Woman. Because plenty of those that label themselves as that certainly aren't beautiful. |
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oh god i feel sick |
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^^That came along before Geek_Girl made "fat girl" sexy. ^It's just as well. I don't think you've got the facial structure to still look attractive as a big guy (and yes, I do know quite a few big guys who have the facial structure to be attractive even at 300 pounds plus). |
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geek_grrl
I iz sexy? |
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^ You iz.
OP: There is no way to select matches based on body type. I kind of think that must be deliberate, since if you have an A-List account you can select based on pretty much anything else. |
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^^Absolutely! |
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geek_grrl
*makes out with emote* OP, I've given this some thought. On the one hand, it would be easier to be able to sort profiles by people who are already attracted to people of your body type. On the other hand, all of the men I've dated (and by dated I mean sex) from this site (or from Match, or from meatspace) were men who weren't ordinarily attracted to women with my body type but found me attractive despite a usual preference. Diversity of humanity always amazing.
I understand that sometimes you'll hear dumbasses say that because someone is "ugly" in whatever subjective terms have been constructed for the current generation/culture, that they will in fact be desperate to fuck just for some sort of intimate human contact. However, I just want to point out that being interested in casual sex does not make one easy. I'm very picky about who I sex up. It's not about being easy, it's just about being free from some of the complexities of a monogamous LTR.
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I`m a BBW, and fully agree with geek_grrl! There should be a "body preference" option.. |
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im 22.bbw Please, just say you are fat. You aren't fooling anyone. We all know it is a code for fat, so just say "I'm fat". Thank you, and have a nice day!
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geek_grrl
iz fat *makes out with Wizzo, whether he likes it or not* Maybe we can change it to Fat Sexy Grrl (FSG). Meh. I don't give a shit. |
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xero_chance09
I don't think a feature like that would be very useful, in all honesty. |
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^ But how are all the womanz who like skinny, tall dudes going to locate me without having to sift through a bunch of short, squat guys? What if the only thing standing between me and twu wuv is a search filter!? |
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Craigslist.
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I fucking hate fat people. Lose weight and quit tryna pretend that you're happy being twice the size of a twin bed. |
i think we need a place to get together since okcupid lacks the option to choose what body type youre looking for, n if they have it; i have yet to figure out how to use it. =]
im 22.bbw.f.wny, looking to make friends, possibly love later, but no hurrys. not into casual sex, or one nighters, and doesnt like to be viewed as a bbw sex icon. im just a bbw, simple, nothing crazy. just cuz were big doesnt mean were "easy".
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