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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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how to report scammers by ultramafic_ posted Today – 7:16am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by Michael-OkC posted 9 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Not to be racist but which ethnicity do you find to be most attractive? by Imaginum posted 59 minutes ago

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Why do men want to date younger people, but women don't? by spiritlescalier posted 9 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Having the guts to message by Luvs_Onions posted Today – 1:21pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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When you hide a profile you don't like it says "they can't all be winners". by Nicholas2430 posted Today – 4:23pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What should I do about having no car? by corn_dog_soup posted Yesterday – 9:25pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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I can't seem to craft a compelling profile. by Crystal_Chrome posted 28 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Do any Trans* Les/Gay actually get messages or replies? by Neequxsan posted Yesterday – 1:59pm


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In tonite's stickam Loopay is going to get a few things off her chest. by Mala_Chite posted Oct 22

Life Advice

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Don't feed the yao guai. by weepdot posted Oct 19

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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I'm confused wth why now? by Vrochet_Celours posted Today – 4:07pm


Discussions about life and love.

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The Forum Has Been DeFroked by BiggestCockEver posted 41 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Bonny & Clyde Test by Vrochet_Celours posted Oct 18

Alternative Lifestyles

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would u date a zoophile? by el-lobo posted Yesterday – 6:32am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by Stealurfries posted Today – 4:50pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1