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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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How do I search for match questions/themes of questions while *NOT* on another user's profile? by ItWasFate posted Yesterday – 4:47pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 10:50pm

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by Xaviersx posted Jan 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Rant - Men & their looks VS Women & their looks by BurnAfterViewing posted Yesterday – 11:29pm

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Response rate when messaging only those that like you by Luc83 posted Yesterday – 8:45pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Received first EVER c/p form message. by BurnAfterViewing posted Yesterday – 11:32pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by amp-here posted Jan 27

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Lots of mutual matches and high match %s, but no responses? by Luc83 posted 25 minutes ago

Discussions
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LGBTQ

Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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I Went to school with some kid who i just found out is in this band thats pretty popular by Donnie_Walsh posted Yesterday – 4:28pm

Sexuality

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Wolf Whistles etc. and does it actually work or is it just chasing off women? by roxxr posted Jan 28

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Your girlfriend is cheating on you. What's the worst place for her to be "doing it"? by amp-here posted Jan 28

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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No responses? by EdCoan2299 posted Yesterday – 9:30pm

General

Discussions about life and love.

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Is my body attractive? by BiggestCockEver posted 24 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by picknch00se posted Jan 20

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Lack of support for fora sucks by In-The-Flow posted Jan 26

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 8:45pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by katelynblackart posted Jan 24