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Help and FAQ

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Recover deleted messages? by CrossingChasms posted Today – 2:15pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Red_Eve posted Jun 27

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Red_Eve posted Today – 3:11pm

Rants & Raves

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Latest OKC Update....UGHHH by Sapiosenses posted Today – 6:37am

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Number of questions answered... NOT by Sapiosenses posted Jun 25

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Not Sure What To Make Of This by Michael917 posted Yesterday – 10:25am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How do you respond to "hi"? by Red_Eve posted Today – 1:52pm

Profile Suggestions

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Biannual review by Save_A-Horse posted 28 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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What's the difference between Marriage and Civil Union? by lady_dernhelm posted Yesterday – 3:03am


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"Sapiosexual" by Tulefel posted Today – 2:18pm

Life Advice

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MGTOW by roxxr posted Today – 5:22am

Dating Advice

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I'm getting married! by Phyrewerx posted 53 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Today – 12:30am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

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Single looking for a dope couple by ctsnola posted Jun 9

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Today – 1:38pm

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26