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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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People with full mailboxes sending mail. by sandmanfvr001 posted 49 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by simpleskeptic posted 3 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by centilliniguy posted Feb 28

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Rant- gender and sexuality by CuntCupcake posted 19 minutes ago

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Is this site basically 99.9 bs - or do people actually get responses? by ProgGuitarNerd posted Today – 3:17am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Why do girls not respond here? by Sushibitch posted 31 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by Sushibitch posted 24 minutes ago

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Ok, I can take the heat...let's do this. by newinsm posted 17 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Why am I a match for guys? by 1nfern0 posted Today – 7:17am


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Is sex good or bad.?.>? by MsOtis posted Today – 1:15am

Life Advice

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When You Are Young by thekochbro posted Today – 2:50am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Would you date a guy whose one and only friend was a girl? by Sushibitch posted 29 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Effeminate, Transgender Or What Ever by DDCupps posted 48 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by Bananastand4k posted Feb 24

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Otherkin Anywhere on OkCupid? by KristenWilkey posted Yesterday – 4:24pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 6:50am

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by Henry_1337 posted Feb 25