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Help and FAQ

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My profile just disappeared by arthuf posted Today – 5:29am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by roxxr posted Jan 30

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by Xaviersx posted Jan 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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If my cell phone had a DnD alignment, it would be chaotic evil! by roxxr posted Today – 4:40am

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The meaning of "liking" a person without giving any explanation by Luc83 posted Jan 30

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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How are we supposed to learn anything? by 12345123412 posted Today – 7:55am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by ctsnola posted Today – 4:59am

Profile Suggestions

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Curious what others think by iandunn2 posted Today – 7:41am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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PHANTOMZ IS BACK!! ALL MY REGS WHO KNOW ME POST HERE !!! by CousCouss posted Today – 8:02am


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Wolf Whistles etc. and does it actually work or is it just chasing off women? by roxxr posted Today – 3:14am

Life Advice

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Your girlfriend is cheating on you. What's the worst place for her to be "doing it"? by amp-here posted Jan 28

Dating Advice

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No responses? by roxxr posted Today – 3:49am


Discussions about life and love.

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meeting someone without a rapport established by BiggestCockEver posted 16 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by picknch00se posted Jan 20

Alternative Lifestyles

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Feeders and Feedees by AC_Nunes posted Yesterday – 6:24pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Today – 4:46am

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by katelynblackart posted Jan 24