cmejennie

Aug 21, 2008

I know this isn't really an AL question, but I know some of you don't get into the other forums too much and I like you/want your input ;)

 

When you look at a person's profile what do you look at first?

What will make you stop reading a profile and go to the next one?

NightAtTheRoses

Aug 21, 2008

They call themselves a christian in their self-summary

Their favorite foods are mostly meat dishes

They mention a sports team, or their favorite hobby involves sports

They're misogynistic dicks, like HHH

They claim that they are not looking for sex

They express a desire for a purely monogamous relationship

They're looking for someone to have a threesome with

Um, I'm sure I could list more

 

 

hugehank

Aug 21, 2008

When they say "I love to laugh": How dumb is that? I mean really, is there anyone who HATES to laugh? If they're that unoriginal online, they must be much worse in person.

 A real snooZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzz er.

zephery

Aug 21, 2008

fun loving

easy going

I don't think I can be summarized in this box

kids

references to Lord of the Rings

not looking for sex

they're only looking for other vegan/vegetarians

NPR

references to the Red Sox
Merry927

Aug 21, 2008

Really short, meaningless answers.

calandale1

Aug 21, 2008

Fugly.

cheri_amor

Aug 21, 2008

Deal breakers?

They're one of those people who make a bunch of noise about how Christians are stupid, delusional etc.

They are anything other than heterosexual and were born females

They aren't interested in a monogamous relationship

They've listed sex as all they're after

They talk about NOTHING but hobbies/sports

They aren't going to college in the near future, are in college, or have graduated college

They're anything other than single

1 kid will worry me; 2+...nevermind; not interested in being anyone's mommy at this point.

 

NightAtTheRoses

Aug 21, 2008

calandale1:

Fugly.

Ha. Yeah.

Rockoval

Aug 21, 2008

If they are strongly religious or strongly anti-religious.

If they put "don't message me if all you want is a one night stand." Not that I want casual sex because I don't, but that just seems prudish and bitchy to me.

mistaRR

Aug 21, 2008

Anything that indirectly screams out batshit insanity.

NightAtTheRoses

Aug 21, 2008

OH! If they say stupid things, and then say "lol"

It usually pisses me off if they say lol at all

 

 

calandale1

Aug 21, 2008

cheri_amor:

Deal breakers?

They aren't going to college in the near future, are in college, or have graduated college

 

So, you're only interested in someone

who is considering college? That's a kinda

narrow band, at your age. You should AT LEAST

consider those who are currently in.

froggirl58

Aug 21, 2008

Children under 18...my godchildren are in college.

Christians...I just don't think they could handle my "Buddhism"

Right-wing politics

Sports fanatics

 TV watchers

Luddites

Being vegetarian/vegan

I actually have few deal-breakers, but look for common interests. If there are only a few, than I pass on by.

 

v Cal.1: I like kids, but after being a full-time caregiver for 3 years, I have no desire to be a "parent" to any.

calandale1

Aug 21, 2008

froggirl58:

Children under 18...my godchildren are in college.

 

My only worry there, is that the AoC laws

would get me.

EMT85

Aug 21, 2008

NightAtTheRoses:

OH! If they say stupid things, and then say "lol"

It usually pisses me off if they say lol at all

 

 

Amen to that.

 

They're only here for the questions.

They "aren't looking for a relationship, but if something happens then it happens."

They just broke up with someone.

They have more than 1 kid.

They are extremely religious or anti-religious. I'm happy with "Not religious."

Racism, prejudice.

No effort in using any form of proper grammar.

No job or no car, or lack of both.

Vegetarians/Vegans (as Froggirl58 mentioned)

That's all I can think of right now.

 

Then there's the obvious ones too: If they have a penis or use to at any point in their lives, if they weigh a LOT more than me, and if they have STDs.

NightAtTheRoses

Aug 21, 2008

What's with all the veggie haters?

Well, I wouldn't date you either!

EMT85

Aug 21, 2008

NightAtTheRoses:

What's with all the veggie haters?

Well, I wouldn't date you either!

 

I don't hate vegetarians, they hate me. So I just avoid them.

chainedpunkgirl

Aug 21, 2008

Anti poly.

 

Hunters or fishers. Although I would rather have people I know buy local or get their own food, I just don't think I could date someone who kills their own meat.

 

Scientologists.

 

Juggalo/lettes.

 

Smokers.

 

Stupid veggie haters...

NightAtTheRoses

Aug 21, 2008

EMT85:

No job or no car, or lack of both.

Then there's the obvious ones too: If they have a penis or use to at any point in their lives, if they weigh a LOT more than me, and if they have STDs.

What if someone previously had an STD, but they got treated and they are now clean?

What if the person cannot drive because of a seizure disorder?

cheri_amor

Aug 21, 2008

calandale1:

cheri_amor:

Deal breakers?

They aren't going to college in the near future, are in college, or have graduated college

 

So, you're only interested in someone

who is considering college? That's a kinda

narrow band, at your age. You should AT LEAST

consider those who are currently in.

No. I did say that i'd consider those that are already in. When i said considering college i mean people who have graduated high school before or the same year as me and are going to go. I know some people take a semester or so off and just enjoy not being in school.

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