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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Trouble uploading photos by bajansweets posted 35 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Today – 3:15pm

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by Xaviersx posted Today – 10:16am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Message Strike Announcement by sarahbop posted 8 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Any ideas? by corn_dog_soup posted Jan 19

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Post the worst im's ever!!!! by sandyvs posted Today – 11:03am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How do you respond to "hi"? by T-money2158 posted Jan 23

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Honest assessment of my profile wanted! by akatsuki5565 posted 13 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Using only a movie title, answer the question from the person above you. by jay-dee-bee posted Yesterday – 10:15pm


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Penis Envy Song by roxxr posted Yesterday – 9:51am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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When You Are Young by Dad777-4u posted Yesterday – 8:16pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Meeting women at the gym by sarahbop posted 14 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Scott with a slingshot finally found a tender spot and throwed his lover in the sand. by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 3:41pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by picknch00se posted Jan 20

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Lack of support for fora sucks by calandale1 posted Yesterday – 2:05pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 3:37pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by katelynblackart posted Yesterday – 7:48pm