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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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What happens when you give someone 3 stars? by Hook90 posted Yesterday – 7:40pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by ALdentes posted 25 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Aug 19

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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What is the point of browsing anonymously? by Ray_o_Sun_Light posted Yesterday – 6:13pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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I know I'm an idiot but... HOW do I change my username? by deanmoriarty8 posted Aug 19

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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People deleting their profile after messaging you? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 5:23pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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New York - free dancing lessons? by Chaeddd posted Aug 14

Profile Suggestions

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Need constructive critisisms on my profile, please by Hook90 posted Yesterday – 7:38pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Casual lesbian funtimes by lesbianbuffy posted Aug 6


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS by dragon4gamer posted Aug 21

Life Advice

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Two Main Groups by empirestv007 posted Aug 20

Dating Advice

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I'm nearly 28 years old and have never even so much as had a date . by mintcandy posted Yesterday – 8:26pm


Discussions about life and love.

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poor robin williams by empirestv007 posted Yesterday – 3:28pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by SixTwentyTwo posted Aug 20

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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wargame by La-Ritournelle posted Yesterday – 5:11am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by Stealurfries posted Yesterday – 6:11pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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uk meeting by La-Ritournelle posted Aug 15