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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Jesus Christ, the women on this site are fucking fat by booksandbourbon posted Today – 12:07am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Yesterday – 7:10pm

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Jul 10

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Rant: Okc still has fourms by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 7:41am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Changing username by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted Yesterday – 7:26pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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How accurate are match percentages? by bluemoon1227 posted Yesterday – 1:15pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Coffee's too expensive for dirtbags by booksandbourbon posted Today – 1:35am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Can a profile be silly and soulful? by the777s posted 51 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Add trans identities to OkCupid by empirestv007 posted Yesterday – 1:32pm


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS by Numzie posted Yesterday – 8:05pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Service to our Lord by La-Ritournelle posted Jul 4

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Men, here are 80 red flags to look out for when considering a relatioship with a female by Crystal_Chrome posted 16 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Fat Privilege by MsOtis posted 27 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by Chaeddd posted Jul 2

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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wargame by La-Ritournelle posted Jul 10

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by animehands posted 34 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Portland Oregon meet up by confidentmind posted Jul 9