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how to see guys with no pictures?? by tar844 posted 58 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Today – 11:07am

Match Questions

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How many continents are there? by corn_dog_soup posted Mar 27

Rants & Raves

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Rant: Jealousy by Sushibitch posted Today – 12:51pm

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My 99% match didn't work out lol by RyuukoGo posted Yesterday – 7:26am

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Success - Failure

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Failure.. or was I not "tolerant" enough? by lady_dernhelm posted Today – 6:48am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by German_Filmstar posted Today – 12:27pm

Profile Suggestions

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Is my Profile too long or short? Mind giving me some feedback for my profile(good and bads)? by ThisNameTakenYet posted 11 minutes ago

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Using only a movie title, answer the question from the person above you. by eat-pray-die posted Mar 24


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Mar 27

Life Advice

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Scientists have uncovered why hipsters grow beards by roxxr posted Yesterday – 9:20pm

Dating Advice

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Search by body type nonsense, when da fuq did this happen? by sandyvs posted Today – 2:01pm


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Today – 1:16pm

Hello Quizzy

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Things that Cannot be eaten with Chopstix by roxxr posted Mar 27

Alternative Lifestyles

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I'm Curious. Again. [Religion/LGBPT] by calandale1 posted Yesterday – 12:34pm

Unmitigated Drama

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the word association game by takemeifyoumust posted 6 minutes ago

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Past Meetups

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Worst date with someone you met online by Pirate_Opie posted Mar 18

Group Meetups

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Older women looking for younger men by Rodney69 posted Mar 28