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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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how do i see my reply rate? by jgirds posted Yesterday – 12:07pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by ComfortablyOdd posted Yesterday – 9:31pm

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Jul 18

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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jeeps by GiveMeDickens posted Yesterday – 10:41pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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This is why guys never understand girls. Girls, can you explain? by Sinistre_M posted Jul 31

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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how often do you get women messaging you first ? by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted Yesterday – 5:37pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Men responding to contacts from women by mintcandy posted Jul 31

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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May I get a profile suggestion plz? by showmehowto-live posted Yesterday – 8:40pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Trans lesbian can't find anyone by VampoQueen posted Jul 21


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS by tv-kenny posted Yesterday – 1:11pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Are they forum trolls or just nutjobs? by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 9:51am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Why don't I get many likes or messages by GiveMeDickens posted Yesterday – 10:32pm


Discussions about life and love.

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what do you think about whats going on in the middle east? by BiggestCockEver posted 51 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by musakak posted Jul 30

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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wargame by La-Ritournelle posted Yesterday – 3:57am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Yesterday – 10:02pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the fucking point of this section? by JustinMartyr posted Jul 30