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Help and FAQ

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Messages Have Not Actually Been Sent by RavenWeek posted Yesterday – 5:45pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 11:03pm

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Yesterday – 4:11am

Rants & Raves

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One of the questions has no correct answer... by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 8:28pm

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I know I'm an idiot but... HOW do I change my username? by deanmoriarty8 posted Yesterday – 11:17am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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how often do you get women messaging you first ? by VulpineGrrl posted Yesterday – 5:17pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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New York - free dancing lessons? by Chaeddd posted Aug 14

Profile Suggestions

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Significantly changed profile. by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 9:22pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Casual lesbian funtimes by lesbianbuffy posted Aug 6


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The First Church of IsntThisFun of Later Day Attention Whores by jcharles01 posted Yesterday – 7:52pm

Life Advice

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Psychological Chemistry by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 8:01pm

Dating Advice

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I'm nearly 40 years old and most guess not even so much as 28 . by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted 14 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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It's Serious Competition, Girls by NotAdamSandler posted Yesterday – 3:41pm

Hello Quizzy

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Best animated movie ever? by Ataraxia08 posted Yesterday – 10:05am

Alternative Lifestyles

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couple cooking a girlfriend by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 9:39pm

Unmitigated Drama

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Who is the Creepiest Member of OKCupid? by eastknight posted 30 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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uk meeting by La-Ritournelle posted Aug 15