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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Removed bookmark still appears by teh_lizzard posted Yesterday – 10:17pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AyasImmuneSystm posted Yesterday – 10:48pm

Match Questions

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"Wherefore art thou Romeo!" What does "wherefore" mean in this context? by Naturegurl1 posted Nov 22

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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name an item that gets you laid: by corn_dog_soup posted Yesterday – 7:34pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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unblock my messages by corn_dog_soup posted Yesterday – 8:20pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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No Reply by Sushibitch posted Today – 4:23am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How do I plan a date with this girl? by GeorgeForeman69 posted Yesterday – 4:20pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Guys. Come on, try to pick me up - lets see how you do! by DaringVoyager posted 12 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Demisexuality by Keikuri posted Yesterday – 10:56am


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by corn_dog_soup posted Yesterday – 8:00pm

Life Advice

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Life is a game... by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 5:41pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Is asking girls out for coffee right off the bat bad? by Jackie_tack posted 15 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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The Random Observation Thread by roxxr posted Today – 4:35am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by Jackie_tack posted Nov 24

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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wargame by La-Ritournelle posted Nov 22

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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ABC...word game: Another Agonizing Attempt At Anything by BiggestCockEver posted Nov 24

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1