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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Not getting messages or visitors by Sapiosenses posted Today – 1:40am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Today – 1:29am

Match Questions

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What do you think of a person who is over 18 and a virgin? by MsOtis posted 35 minutes ago

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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DTF no thanks by sarahbop posted Today – 4:10am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by MrPypes posted May 3

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Did that entire thread started by that sovereignlove dude get deleted? by roxxr posted Yesterday – 3:03pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How many dates have you been on from this website? by Ataraxia08 posted Yesterday – 1:15pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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think twice before paying a pro to take pics by sarahbop posted 30 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Still not sure what the "queer community" is supposed to mean by Ataraxia08 posted Yesterday – 1:21pm


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What's better? Big brain or a air head? by amp-here posted 4 minutes ago

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Not Going To Listen by Sapiosenses posted Today – 1:15am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Not succeeding in getting chicks. by justinanerd posted Yesterday – 8:23am


Discussions about life and love.

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Moderation Rules Discussion - Be Polite. by ctsnola posted 15 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Are poly women more responsive in general or did I just get better at this? by ctsnola posted Yesterday – 5:12am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 12:24am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the point of this section? by kriegasaurusrex posted Apr 27