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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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What does a 'scammer' message look like? by MynameisJules posted Today – 7:35pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by sandyvs posted Just now!

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Jul 18

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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OKCupid sucks by L-A-R posted Today – 6:08pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Do you tell your dates you're A-list? by L-A-R posted Yesterday – 9:39pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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No luck and and so rare the responses by eastcoaster2013 posted 32 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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New York - free dancing lessons? by ebontigress posted Jul 20

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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How often do you reply to messages? by 8-bit-Blues posted Today – 7:05pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Trans lesbian can't find anyone by VampoQueen posted Jul 21


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Today's Hook-Up culture by TryUsingBees posted 27 minutes ago

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Science At Its Best by empirestv007 posted Jul 16

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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What are you doing for you today? by MisterCreep posted Today – 5:58pm


Discussions about life and love.

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5 Things Online Dating Has Taught Me by TryUsingBees posted 50 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by Chaeddd posted Jul 2

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Watersports fetish by Chaeddd posted Today – 4:50am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by swyat posted Today – 5:53pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the fucking point of this section? by nothing500 posted Jul 18