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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Quickmatch on the OkCupid app by EricaOtter posted 27 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by mrjon32 posted 36 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Not to be racist but which ethnicity do you find to be most attractive? by Imaginum posted Yesterday – 4:59pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Why do men want to date younger people, but women don't? by Neequxsan posted Today – 3:59pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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The 90+% Conundrum by Wilko_NL posted Today – 12:11am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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When you hide a profile you don't like it says "they can't all be winners". by vvarriors posted 9 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What should I do about having no car? by corn_dog_soup posted Oct 23

Profile Suggestions

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I feel really antisocial.. some times so can you check it with me? by The_Hoyden posted Today – 6:09pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Do any Trans* Les/Gay actually get messages or replies? by Neequxsan posted Oct 23


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In tonite's stickam Loopay is going to get a few things off her chest. by Wicked_Keef posted Today – 6:17pm

Life Advice

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Don't feed the yao guai. by weepdot posted Oct 19

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Lonely on OKCupid by The_Hoyden posted Today – 6:53pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Who Wants to Read a Good Book? by MrGeekBoi posted Today – 6:34pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by el-lobo posted Today – 10:39am

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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would u date a zoophile? by La-Ritournelle posted Today – 4:18am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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5 Letter Scrabble by Stealurfries posted Today – 2:34pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1