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Help and FAQ

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Messages not going through by KizzyDee posted Today – 4:19pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AyasImmuneSystm posted 39 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by centilliniguy posted Feb 28

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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quit asking women for advice/clarification by MsOtis posted 19 minutes ago

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Is this site basically 99.9 bs - or do people actually get responses? by ProgGuitarNerd posted Today – 3:17am

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Success - Failure

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Be honest, is being a professional caterer a meal baker? by MsOtis posted 15 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by MsOtis posted Today – 11:36am

Profile Suggestions

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Please review my profile by Cyclosimosaurus posted Just now!

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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I Went to school with some kid who i just found out is in this band thats pretty popular by CuntCupcake posted 4 minutes ago


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Do you think the 50 shades of grey movie is going to make dating even harder? by BJsWholesaleClub posted Today – 12:24pm

Life Advice

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Just DO by NoRushMartin posted Today – 2:21pm

Dating Advice

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Would you date a guy whose one and only friend was a girl? by diaylup posted Today – 5:24pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Effeminate, Transgender Or What Ever by MsOtis posted 26 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by Bananastand4k posted Feb 24

Alternative Lifestyles

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Otherkin Anywhere on OkCupid? by KristenWilkey posted Today – 5:18pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Today – 9:22am

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by Henry_1337 posted Feb 25