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Help and FAQ

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ADMIN NEEDED: Other users unable to see my messages/find me/ talk with me/see that I visited them by flyboy_James posted Yesterday – 6:09am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AyasImmuneSystm posted Yesterday – 10:45pm

Match Questions

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STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to... by MsOtis posted 10 minutes ago

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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A-List General Discussion A-List

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"Message Read" check mark disappeared? by Insipidous posted Sep 15

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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how often do you get women messaging you first ? by MsOtis posted Today – 12:45am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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White men by SeanKHotay posted Sep 14

Profile Suggestions

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Back in Single Life by AmusemerightMEOW posted Yesterday – 11:53pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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I wish "couples" were a separate category. by fizzlykittens posted Sep 16


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NFL WEEK 3 by jay-dee-bee posted Yesterday – 9:30pm

Life Advice

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Ladies, should I buy a Tiny House and land? by L-A-R posted Yesterday – 7:22pm

Dating Advice

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Ah RAY RICE....what have you done? by Crystal_Chrome posted Yesterday – 10:48pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Should The Queen Intervene? by MsOtis posted 2 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Bonny & Clyde Test by N3buKadN3zar posted Sep 12

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby dating by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 1:11pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 10:37pm

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Sep 14