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Hyperlinks to the forum for your profile HERE. by Tulefel posted 39 minutes ago

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Is homosexuality a sin? by ctyslckrv posted Dec 25

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Why do I watch the 'Wheel of Fortune' here when I know my odds of 'winning' are so low? by roxxr posted Yesterday – 11:20pm

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You'll appear on their list!!! by BartlettInFC posted Dec 27

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How are we supposed to learn anything? by roxxr posted Just now!

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he ask for sex on fist date by ctsnola posted Dec 26

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Profile Photo Question by Sushibitch posted Today – 12:13am

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Non-binary Gender Options by evilpeterparker posted Dec 27


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Love by ultramafic_ posted Dec 23

Dating Advice

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Anyone seen Gone Girl? by ChineseAcrobat posted Yesterday – 8:59pm


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2014 OkCupid year in review by evilpeterparker posted Yesterday – 8:07pm

Hello Quizzy

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by tyrebiter posted Dec 13

Alternative Lifestyles

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Wet Clothes, Anyone? by XenitH686 posted Dec 18

Unmitigated Drama

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by BiggestCockEver posted 2 minutes ago

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1

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