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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Simple statements of site problems by Sapiosenses posted 26 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 10:43pm

Match Questions

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What do you think of a person who is over 18 and a virgin? by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 4:48am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Favorites Online? by VascoDom posted 38 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by MrPypes posted May 3

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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What does the ideal rejection look like? by ctsnola posted Today – 4:54am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How many dates have you been on from this website? by Ataraxia08 posted May 4

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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think twice before paying a pro to take pics by amp-here posted Today – 7:17am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Still not sure what the "queer community" is supposed to mean by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 10:51pm


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What's better? Big brain or a air head? by amp-here posted Today – 7:10am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Pain by TryUsingBees posted Today – 10:14am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Not succeeding in getting chicks. by justinanerd posted May 4


Discussions about life and love.

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Moderation Rules Discussion - Be Polite. by Sapiosenses posted 57 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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I'm Curious. Again. [Religion/LGBPT] by calandale1 posted Today – 6:50am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 12:20am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the point of this section? by kriegasaurusrex posted Apr 27