That stuff is for A-List users only! You should upgrade your account.

Section Posts Topics Recent Comments In

Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

78693 8213

Personality traits by optimistoic posted 4 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

15460 13

What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by LibertyW posted Yesterday – 5:20am

Match Questions

192228 7041

Would the world be a better place if people with low IQs were not allowed to reproduce? by Glitchy_Sylph posted Today – 3:21am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

1081432 38019

Blocking a browser? Seriously? by Glitchy_Sylph posted 24 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

6283 479

This is why guys never understand girls. Girls, can you explain? by AprilFall posted Yesterday – 10:21pm

Only A-List members are allowed to view and post in this section.

Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

304538 9153

Am I doing something wrong in my profile or is it just me? by Sushibitch posted 41 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

93481 2084

My lovers revenge =D by BiggestCockEver posted Apr 13

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

178907 15407

Profile / Photo Help by squigless posted 24 minutes ago

Section Posts Topics Recent Comments In


Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

201323 3981

Why Is the Poster Above You Single? by Jamesbus9 posted Apr 10


3729135 100424

18 yo ladies please date me on a scale while I weigh myself by smashingmayo posted 28 minutes ago

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

121253 4142

If you knew there was a way to have eternal life. would you take it? by Serryn808 posted Apr 13

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

835755 18031

Men and "Drama" by TryUsingBees posted Just now!


Discussions about life and love.

1816268 61577

atomicturtle's journal by atomicturtle posted Yesterday – 10:27pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

9464 523

best punk rock song ever by bigburpboy posted Apr 6

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

149142 3235

Boycott OkCupid for supporting economic boycotts! by vvarriors posted Apr 15

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

565825 6710

the word association game by squigless posted Today – 3:01am

Get Togethers
Section Posts Topics Recent Comments In

Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

9293 199

Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

22762 3764

New Authentic Speed Dating Meetup in Austin, Texas by squigless posted Yesterday – 10:20pm