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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Not receiving messages by hankmoodycynic posted 49 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 1:52pm

Match Questions

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Do you think women have an obligation to keep their legs shaved? by CammieObscura posted Jul 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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I hate being single. and I'm baaaack! I guess? by roxxr posted Today – 9:59pm

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This is a badass article that kinda explains one of the big flaws of online dating. by Sapiosenses posted Today – 6:58pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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No luck and and so rare the responses by Manofbeard posted Today – 8:16pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Would you rather a guys smile in their profile yes or no? by yogaran posted Jul 23

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Profile Review by RichieRoo1989 posted Today – 10:10pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Gay marriage now legal across the USA by Sapiosenses posted Today – 2:47pm


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Today – 3:48pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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How do you imagine your life in terms of friendship if you had this medical condition I dealt with? by roxxr posted Jul 25

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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What does it mean if she selectively not respond to certain texts(about commit dates and compliments) by CammieObscura posted Today – 8:44pm


Discussions about life and love.

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not seeing visitors or messages by atomicturtle posted Today – 10:28pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Otherkin Anywhere on OkCupid? by swagman101 posted Jul 22

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by sandyvs posted 37 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26