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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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OKCupid displays a month's worth of visitors AT ONCE by sandyvs posted 34 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Mask_and_Mirror posted Yesterday – 9:03am

Match Questions

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You are having a relaxing evening reading emails, when your cat wipes his ass on your undershirt, while you are wearing it, leaving a trail of dookie across your chest. You: by slaveyy posted Apr 15

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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How did you guys even know there was a forum here? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 1:42pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by _sarah_smiles_ posted Apr 16

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Impossible Standards by roxxr posted 3 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Date Behavior - during the date by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 6:34pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Mind taking a look at my profile? (TEAR IT TO SHREDS) by roxxr posted Yesterday – 9:27pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Barely Any Lesbians by Neequxsan posted Apr 17


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS - redux by eastknight posted Yesterday – 2:30pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Having a New Home by Dad777-4u posted Apr 5

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Political Bulletin Board by eat-pray-die posted Today – 4:11am


Discussions about life and love.

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Where did all the OKC forum traffic go? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 12:57pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by eat-pray-die posted Today – 5:33am

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Strapon/Pegging: A discussion of interest by Neequxsan posted Yesterday – 3:14pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by sandyvs posted 31 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Any Californians still here?? (Esp NorCal) [drops pin] by Sapiosenses posted Apr 12