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Help and FAQ

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How do you know when somebody blocks you? by MsOtis posted Today – 3:11pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by sandyvs posted Today – 4:57pm

Match Questions

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"Wherefore art thou Romeo!" What does "wherefore" mean in this context? by 2knees posted Nov 18

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Numbers are exchanged!! But No Phone Call :-( by BklynGyal posted 49 minutes ago

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Most surprising thing of all... by BuckyGoldstein14 posted Today – 1:40pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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No luck and and so rare the responses by ctsnola posted Today – 5:40pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How do you respond to "hi"? by Darjeeling19 posted Nov 17

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Profile critique by MsOtis posted Today – 3:14pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Add trans identities to OkCupid by sommermädchen posted Nov 18


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted 17 minutes ago

Life Advice

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CWESQ's Trial Balloon by CWESQ posted Nov 20

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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How early is "too early," to have sex when pursuing a relationship? by ctsnola posted Today – 5:50pm


Discussions about life and love.

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The 'Dude'-Word Is A Dud— by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 5:40pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by ILookLikeADouche posted Nov 17

Alternative Lifestyles

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wargame by La-Ritournelle posted Today – 2:34am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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ABC...word game: Another Agonizing Attempt At Anything by Stealurfries posted Today – 9:40am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1