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how do i see my reply rate? by melilala125 posted 28 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted 32 minutes ago

Match Questions

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How many continents are there? by corn_dog_soup posted Mar 27

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Why did she stop? by MrPypes posted Mar 29

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Failure.. or was I not "tolerant" enough? by Rodney69 posted Yesterday – 8:54pm

Date Suggestions

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by German_Filmstar posted Yesterday – 1:08pm

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Playing the numbers, Statistics Replies/Messages-Sent by Sushibitch posted Yesterday – 10:43pm

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Using only a movie title, answer the question from the person above you. by eat-pray-die posted Mar 24


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Mar 27

Life Advice

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Scientists have uncovered why hipsters grow beards by sarahbop posted 13 minutes ago

Dating Advice

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Search by body type nonsense, when da fuq did this happen? by roxxr posted 58 minutes ago


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Boston/Maine in July 2015 by FrokTeling posted Yesterday – 11:29pm

Hello Quizzy

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Things that Cannot be eaten with Chopstix by roxxr posted Mar 27

Alternative Lifestyles

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I'm Curious. Again. [Religion/LGBPT] by 3wayphucksign posted 5 minutes ago

Unmitigated Drama

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by Sewickleytron posted Today – 3:29am

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Worst date with someone you met online by Pirate_Opie posted Mar 18

Group Meetups

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Older women looking for younger men by Rodney69 posted Mar 28