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Messages not sending? by nabajour posted Yesterday – 7:45pm

Questions From Us To You

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Today – 10:52am

Match Questions

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Rants & Raves

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what's considered a "normal" # of people who "like you"? by RumbleLikeRocks posted Today – 11:50am

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How to spot a fake profile? by SeriusReader posted Yesterday – 5:01am

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Success - Failure

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why women don't respond when not interested by Jackie_tack posted Today – 6:02am

Date Suggestions

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What do I suggest we do? by ctsnola posted Nov 26

Profile Suggestions

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My profile is difficult by Phyrewerx posted 28 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Can someone critique my profile? by Curio__ posted Today – 6:56am


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Yesterday – 5:49pm

Life Advice

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CWESQ's Trial Balloon by CWESQ posted Nov 26

Dating Advice

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Is asking bat girl out for coffee really that bad? by Jackie_tack posted 34 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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General by BiggestCockEver posted 34 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by Jackie_tack posted Nov 24

Alternative Lifestyles

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Cuckolding by Jackie_tack posted Today – 12:15pm

Unmitigated Drama

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The OKc Bar by Jackie_tack posted Today – 11:56am

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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1