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Help and FAQ

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Sent Messages appearing in inbox by BusyBuckeye posted Today – 7:22pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AyasImmuneSystm posted 17 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Aug 19

Rants & Raves

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Sharing the most typical, most annoying, stupidest or ironic snippets of profiles. by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted Today – 7:06pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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7 types of women you meet on OK Cupid by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted Today – 4:33pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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White men by WskyTangoFoxtrot posted Today – 6:55pm

Profile Suggestions

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No one writes me messages! by Suavecto posted Today – 12:49pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Casual lesbian funtimes by lesbianbuffy posted Aug 6


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Men, here is a visual refutation of the "women get better with age" lie by daChaosKitty posted Today – 4:14pm

Life Advice

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Don't Worry by Dad777-4u posted Today – 5:45am

Dating Advice

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Free Dinners?? by ChineseAcrobat posted Today – 7:01pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Excellent Words by La-Ritournelle posted Today – 1:27am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by SixTwentyTwo posted Aug 20

Alternative Lifestyles

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i wear a suit and tie to work by calandale1 posted Aug 30

Unmitigated Drama

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by La-Ritournelle posted Today – 3:58pm

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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

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uk meeting by La-Ritournelle posted Aug 15