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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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banner on member-pages … by jade_mantis posted Today – 6:16am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by kmacle posted 14 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Which makes for a better relationship? by roxxr posted Yesterday – 4:26am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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How to Minimize Inbox Clutter, Increase Female Participation, & Generate More Revenue by Tulefel posted 46 minutes ago

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Feature request: additional question sorting options by Wilko_NL posted Yesterday – 3:33am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Has OKCupid Changed? by Sushibitch posted Yesterday – 12:11pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How do you respond to "hi"? by mr_anderson32 posted Yesterday – 4:41am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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What is a tall woman online to do? by Darjeeling19 posted Yesterday – 8:37am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Can't find other gender/orientation options by sarahbop posted Today – 1:06am


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If a girl lied about her real age, would that be a deal breaker? by sandyvs posted 41 minutes ago

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Love by sarahbop posted Yesterday – 3:24am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Dating Burnout: tired of the game by unimportantnow posted Today – 6:02am


Discussions about life and love.

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Spiralling by FrokTeling posted Today – 5:13am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by tyrebiter posted Dec 13

Alternative Lifestyles

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Wet Clothes, Anyone? by XenitH686 posted Dec 18

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by BiggestCockEver posted Today – 5:04am

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1