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Recover deleted messages? by Batgirl_87 posted Today – 4:23pm

Questions From Us To You

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New Site Design questions / comments by Mask_and_Mirror posted Apr 18

Match Questions

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You are having a relaxing evening reading emails, when your cat wipes his ass on your undershirt, while you are wearing it, leaving a trail of dookie across your chest. You: by slaveyy posted Apr 15

Rants & Raves

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Mandatory bi-directional messaging - option? by sarahbop posted 43 minutes ago

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My 99% match didn't work out lol by MonthyPylon posted Yesterday – 10:43am

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Are there any decent women on this site? by Miss-Music posted Today – 8:14am

Date Suggestions

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Date Behavior - during the date by ctsnola posted Yesterday – 9:05am

Profile Suggestions

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Critiques on my profile, go! by Daybreak91 posted Today – 12:41pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Barely Any Lesbians by Neequxsan posted Apr 17


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Skinny guys by HaroldSnepsts posted Today – 4:13pm

Life Advice

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Scientists have uncovered why hipsters grow beards by Okjav posted Today – 1:48pm

Dating Advice

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Bad at initiating...really bad. by HaroldSnepsts posted Today – 12:45pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Game of Thrones tonight!! by MsOtis posted Today – 2:18pm

Hello Quizzy

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Best animated movie ever? by eat-pray-die posted Yesterday – 5:33am

Alternative Lifestyles

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Strapon/Pegging: A discussion of interest by Neequxsan posted Apr 18

Unmitigated Drama

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the word association game by Stealurfries posted Today – 3:45pm

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Past Meetups

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

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Any Californians still here?? (Esp NorCal) [drops pin] by Sapiosenses posted Apr 12