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Help and FAQ

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Why no Lingam and Yoni search criteria in accordance with the Kama Sutra? (male and female genitalia size) by Zyxi posted 28 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by CQCumber posted Today – 8:57pm

Match Questions

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STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to... by Evalas618 posted Today – 8:15am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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How Many Women Actually Initiate? by Lisarey posted 36 minutes ago

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TinEye by Exploreb posted Sep 20

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Want OkCupid to Know About Your Success Story? by blonde180246 posted Yesterday – 6:33am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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White men by SeanKHotay posted Sep 14

Profile Suggestions

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I can't seem to craft a compelling profile. by CQCumber posted Today – 8:33pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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PHANTOMZ IS BACK!! ALL MY REGS WHO KNOW ME POST HERE !!! by Donnie_Walsh posted Today – 8:42am


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS by ILovesTheWater posted Today – 5:11pm

Life Advice

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Ladies, should I buy a Tiny House and land? by ImacNJer posted Yesterday – 4:46pm

Dating Advice

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I dont wanna date anymore by jay-dee-bee posted 42 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Most private thing I'm willing to admit by IlikeIPAs posted Today – 9:45pm

Hello Quizzy

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Bonny & Clyde Test by N3buKadN3zar posted Sep 12

Alternative Lifestyles

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Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby dating by BiggestCockEver posted Sep 17

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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6 Letter Word Scrabble. by animehands posted Today – 4:30pm

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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

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Portland Oregon meet up by Sir_Trancelot posted Sep 19