Sarah-Leslie

Jun 5, 2013

Very general statement I know but... I've been dating this guy now for about 2 weeks who's SUPER hot. I made the first move after our 5th date, and after 10 minutes of enjoying himself he just laid there like a doll. This is the 2nd guy I've met like this; all they are looking out for is their own pleasure. If your not going to do anything other than just sit there its seriously going to piss your GF/wife/ w/e off. 

GAWD I get so pissed off... Maybe I'm just unlucky... Maybe all guys are like this... I might just join lesbian train ><. 

Swampy65

Jun 5, 2013

Maybe he was late for an appointment.

_norbu_

Jun 5, 2013

I might just join lesbian train.

Go on.

katsumii

Jun 5, 2013

lolwat

Sorry to hear, girl. =(

Invisible_Hand

Jun 5, 2013

He needs to get in the habit of just making you orgasm first. That's far and away the best thing to do, because once a male orgasms, the urge to nap is almost completely overwhelming. 

dontwant_an_sn

Jun 5, 2013

it's called pillow-princess-syndrome. the term came about from masculine lesbians who found out what it was like to be forced to wait on a pretty girl and get nothing in return.

Pretty guys always were able to get away with it.... look at when a geeky girl gets an ounce of attention from the captain of the basketball/football team in a high school dynamic. she brings him food, shows up at his house, does things for him, blows him. he won't stop her. Why rock the boat?

Pretty people get free stuff/services. it's a fact of life.

You could A: stop doing things for him and run the risk he moves on to more fertile pastures or

B: find a guy to replace him who does for you and picks his nose in a restaurant but heck, he rubs your feet right?

I stopped being a pillow-princess when i realized how hard it is to get rid of stalker girls who have nothing else in their life but you. Blowjobs feel good for five-ten minutes. peace and quiet feels good forever

 

Sarah-Leslie

Jun 5, 2013

I don't "do" things for him. He asked me out first, payed for the first date, and he's showed up to my house 3 times. It's not really as cut and dry as you put it... although I appreciate your advice... I think I 1/2 agree with what you said.. He might think I'm lucky to have him... He's hot yes but... I have pretty high self-confidence as well.

shadesofsilver

Jun 5, 2013

Any guy not willing to return the favor is not worth the time.

_norbu_

Jun 5, 2013

That's all well and good, but let's go back to the topic of going lesbian.

Mikheil

Jun 5, 2013

Better him, than me.

smashingmayo

Jun 5, 2013

Not as lazy as most wmwen. (im too lazy to correct that typo)
onelongshot

Jun 5, 2013

Bad statement to make, and you are coming off as exceedingly ignorant.

You are just venting, it seems.  

Also, it isn't fair that you are not saying how you acted during the sex.  What were you doing as you were getting fucked?  Let me guess, you were taking the "D", while not burning as much energy as the guy, right?  I hope you made him some food afterwards.

 You'd be better off changing your name to Sarah_lesbie.  If you were a lesbian, what kind of girls would you pursue?  I like Indian girls.  What do you think about them? =-)

smashingmayo

Jun 5, 2013

I didn't even read any of this, but for real it's funny a female would generalize about guys during sex, when women are known for being the lazy ones. If the guy doesn't speed through it, he's already done more than is deserved.
Sarah-Leslie

Jun 6, 2013

^^ Guys I thought it was pretty obvious, read between the lines. 

I was doing all the work. 

bustonedfx

Jun 6, 2013

I'm sorry, I have no sympathy for you

crashcrossroads

Jun 6, 2013

OP is a mediocre looking female...like lots of girls who aren't that great looking she thinks it's because of her own looks/personality that she was able to score a very attractive male...whereas guys are just horny fuckers.

rip59

Jun 6, 2013

OP is pretty hawt.  She needs to return to her last pic.  I highly doubt she was a lazy lay.  Sounds like the guy was experiencing Lo "T" symptoms. 

7Ataraxia

Jun 6, 2013

pics of the guy?

 

anyway, maybe he had whiskey dick, maybe body odour or a fart put him off, maybe he had masturbated just before coming out to see you. Anyway, you should give any guy you REALLY like two goes in bed, just to double check it wasn't a one off bad performance.

Sarah-Leslie

Jun 6, 2013

^^^ Mediocre huh? I work out 4 days a week with intense cardio sessions, manage my diet, and I've received plenty of compliments on my features. I'm sorry I don't want to be < than 140 pounds, I don't feel like starving myself. 

^^ Maybe.. As I said before, I initiated and did all of the 'work' for a good 10 minutes. After that, he just didn't seem interested at all. 

daishaface

Jun 6, 2013

I guess I'm gonna have to be the one to step up and show the OP what making love can be.

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