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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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No more visitors, messages not going through, unable to rate profiles by Wutsinahandle posted Yesterday – 5:46pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by MadelineLime posted Aug 19

Match Questions

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Would you prefer it if fashion models were the same size and bodytype as the average citizen? by MadelineLime posted Aug 24

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Message inbox full, now I have to manually delete messages, one by one, again! by iam_613theevil posted Yesterday – 4:09am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Attractiveness filter by Seal_Beach posted Aug 21

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Should I go for a cougar(40-50 year old)? by sarahbop posted Yesterday – 11:40am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Dating someone the opposite of you. by newbfofmonicalew posted Aug 24

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Boost during rush many views do most of you get? I don't get any visits, boost or not. by Paradigm-Prime posted Yesterday – 4:27pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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You all can marry now ... by roxxr posted Aug 26


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For the MMA Fans by jay-dee-bee posted Yesterday – 7:47pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Hookups or Profiles for you? The VF article by roxxr posted Yesterday – 2:58am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Getting women to ask you (men) out: by jay-dee-bee posted Yesterday – 7:40pm


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Yesterday – 1:02pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Since Cupid's Facelift, Harder To Search women w/ "KInk". by wanttofindmygirl posted Aug 24

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 6:00am

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Yesterday – 4:22pm