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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Visitors Disappearing by Stealurfries posted 19 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AriadneCrete posted Today – 11:28am

Match Questions

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Is homosexuality a sin? by ctyslckrv posted Yesterday – 9:39pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Quickmatch history doesn't work in the app. by Brian1126 posted Yesterday – 4:21am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Cleaning out a mailbox is an insulting process in OKCupid. :(//Rant over// by SeeksSanity posted Today – 12:15pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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MERRY X-mas No Matter What! by Tulefel posted Today – 12:24pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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he ask for sex on fist date by roxxr posted Yesterday – 12:27am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Profile, opening message advice by DiscoJer posted 47 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Non-binary Gender Options by MsOtis posted Today – 3:29am


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What is the point of anal sex? by ctsnola posted Today – 11:42am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Love by ultramafic_ posted Dec 23

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Christmas Eve and Day DATES? by MsOtis posted Today – 3:23am


Discussions about life and love.

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what song are you listening to RIGHT NOW? by Tulefel posted Today – 2:54pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by tyrebiter posted Dec 13

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Wet Clothes, Anyone? by XenitH686 posted Dec 18

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Today – 12:16pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1