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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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The "STALE is to STEAL" question by Createyourview posted Today – 2:33pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by nothedoctor posted 38 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Jul 18

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Where did the stars go??? by 15kdb posted Jul 20

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Changing username by ambleandwhee posted Jul 14

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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No luck and and so rare the responses by anddrewD posted Yesterday – 6:15pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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New York - free dancing lessons? by ebontigress posted Jul 20

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Profile suggestions? by halfagain posted Today – 2:18pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Trans lesbian can't find anyone by VampoQueen posted Yesterday – 12:19am


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In tonite's stickam Loopay is going to get a few things off her chest. by Chaeddd posted Yesterday – 3:59pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Science At Its Best by empirestv007 posted Jul 16

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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What are you doing for you today? by L-A- posted Today – 2:25pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Hoping the seller's bank says: Yes. to my offer. by rustydov posted Today – 2:52pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by Chaeddd posted Jul 2

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Looking for Poly Bi female for cohabitation with couple... Looking for loving relaltionship not fantasy by xplorr94248 posted Today – 10:37am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by 1964jewel posted Today – 3:12pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the fucking point of this section? by nothing500 posted Jul 18