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Help and FAQ

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Scammers in Minnesota. by BiggestCockEver posted Today – 2:36pm

Questions From Us To You

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Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by centilliniguy posted Feb 28

Rants & Raves

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Board Of The Lameshit by misspinkcupcakes posted 28 minutes ago

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Success - Failure

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Why do girls not respond here? by BacchusPlateau posted 6 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Tall Men by star_warsfangirl posted 43 minutes ago

Profile Suggestions

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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How many guys on here are bi? by misspinkcupcakes posted Mar 1


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Do you think the 50 shades of grey movie is going to make dating even harder? by BJsWholesaleClub posted Yesterday – 10:42am

Life Advice

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When You Are Young by thekochbro posted Yesterday – 2:44pm

Dating Advice

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Would you date a guy whose one and only friend was a girl? by diaylup posted 8 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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where was I just commenting? by misspinkcupcakes posted 16 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by Bananastand4k posted Feb 24

Alternative Lifestyles

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Otherkin Anywhere on OkCupid? by KristenWilkey posted 16 minutes ago

Unmitigated Drama

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What song are you listening to RIGHT NOW? by ultramafic_ posted 11 minutes ago

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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

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Baltimore/DC by Henry_1337 posted Feb 25