STLCD

Jun 17, 2013

Ok so I'm not sure whether or not crossdressing fits under the "LGBTQ" category since I'm completely straight but I think it's close and I'll let you chime in on that if you want but basically it's been extremely tough for me. I've been on for over a year and I've met a few people but no such luck in terms of dating. I don't want to hide myself from whoever I'm possibly going to get in a relationship with but at the same time it drives many women away before getting to know me. I make it very clear in my profile that I don't do it full time and if it's necessary for the relationship then they won't have to see or hear of it, simply just know that it exists, basically out of sight out of mind... but still no takers. Anyone else facing some of the same problems and/or have had better luck than I've had? I know that my area probably doesn't have the best selection of women that would be interested in crossdressers but I'm not looking for someone who's into it (that would be icing on the cake) just someone who's willing to give me a fair chance despite my crossdressing.

Roboscopy

Jun 17, 2013

From the title of this thread, I assumed you wanted to know how to be extra pretty with your crossdressing... with I might've been able to provide maybe a few tips for...

But for this... no, I have no idea how to help. I'm facing a similar issue, and it flippin' sucks.

STLCD

Jun 17, 2013

I assumed that these forums were for dating topics so I didn't feel the need to clarify in the title.

Roboscopy

Jun 17, 2013

Nah, as far as I can see, this subsection is devoted to pretty much anything that relates specifically to LGBT folks.

dashing_n00b

Jun 17, 2013

Hey, I want to learn to cross-dress and be pretty!

Roboscopy

Jun 17, 2013

Hey, I want to learn to cross-dress and be pretty!

If you're serious, I can probably help.
If you're not serious I still can help technically, but I won't.

dashing_n00b

Jun 17, 2013

I'm super srs.

Roboscopy

Jun 17, 2013

I CAN TELL!

For starters, you'll need a big old vat of cow estrogen.
You can buy one at your local Black Market.

dashing_n00b

Jun 17, 2013

k, I can do that.

Tip #2?

daishaface

Jun 17, 2013

You're not gonna have any luck with sex-in-the-city-watching straight girls, dude.  Search for bi girls only.  You need someone who embraces the queer.

Cillianonymous

Jun 17, 2013

I embrace bi girls often.  Does this make me one with the queer?  As a random aside, I never understood what that exactly means anymore ... queer ... I've seen so many use that word and mean so many different things.

daishaface

Jun 17, 2013

To me queer means "It would take ten minutes for me to describe my sexuality."

Cillianonymous

Jun 18, 2013

Oh shit, I guess by that definition I'm queer.  I need functions to really get to the heart of my sexuality.  I always thought it had something to do with gender preference.

daishaface

Jun 18, 2013

It does, but once you've realized that gender isn't binary shit gets hella complicated.

marshmallowgurl

Jun 19, 2013

you can always try the "tuck and tape" method.

Thrashing_Doves

Jun 22, 2013

You need to find a woman who was raised by Amazons who is slightly afraid of men and will only truly feel comfortable after feminizing you. 

I won't seriously consider dating someone until they wear my tiara and possibly some pretty pink lipstick.  It is a litmus test that tells me how comfortable they are in their masculinity. 

dashing_n00b

Jun 22, 2013

huh ... I once had a lady ask me to wear a horse saddle and horse mask.  What does  that mean?

Selchie

Jun 23, 2013

OP, show your legs, cover your arms, grow your hair out.

Stop saying you're lonely unless you want to be prey to undesirables.

CorsetedDoll

Jul 26, 2013

^^ It means she wanted you to be her "pony" Dashing troll. But in any case...

I've debated on being a Drag King sometimes...but it would be difficult for me since I'm so small...and no I would not cut my hair, I'd wig myself just like Drag Queen's...but the make up would be awkward...I may go for more of a 1920's/30's guy since they were so femme anyways lol.

But in your case, grow your hair out or get a very good wig, lose some weight and/or get decent shape wear (steel boned underbust corset) and padding for your butt and chest. That's what drag queens do and if you want to look more femme I'd suggest that ^_^...not trying to be rude if I sound it, just giving suggestions and advice. Good luck.

xJealousOrchard

Jul 26, 2013

^

From the title of this thread, I assumed you wanted to know how to be extra pretty with your crossdressing... with I might've been able to provide maybe a few tips for...

But for this... no

 

I assumed that these forums were for dating topics so I didn't feel the need to clarify in the title.

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