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Help and FAQ

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How to add favorites now? by BuckyGoldstein14 posted Today – 6:15pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AyasImmuneSystm posted Today – 5:32pm

Match Questions

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You are watching a low-brow comedy film. One of the characters is crossing a bridge and is suddenly struck with explosive diarrhea. He squats over the bridge and lets it out, with lots of grunting and pooting, and it lands on someone crossing under the b by roxxr posted Yesterday – 9:26pm

Rants & Raves

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Biased search results by mrjon32 posted Today – 5:08am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Age: is anyone telling the truth? Or conversely would anyone dare to lie? by BuckyGoldstein14 posted Today – 6:23pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Why do girls not respond here? by 12345123412 posted Today – 11:52am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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ain't shit on tv by corn_dog_soup posted Today – 11:02am

Profile Suggestions

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I can't seem to craft a compelling profile. by the_thallest posted Today – 11:26am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Who made you turn gay? by cddombrowski posted Yesterday – 11:55pm


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Any OG OKCSF posters still around? by Rechenmaschine posted Today – 11:06am

Life Advice

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Don't feed the yao guai. by palacsintak posted Oct 26

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Women asking if you rent or own... by 12345123412 posted Today – 12:21pm


Discussions about life and love.

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My Verse For Halloween by FrokTeling posted Today – 2:56pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by roxxr posted Oct 28

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Watersports fetish? by el-lobo posted Today – 6:27am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by sandyvs posted Today – 5:17am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1