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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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How do I report someone? by KristopherJay posted Today - 11:36am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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Your Top 3 FAQ Questions? by Sapiosenses posted Saturday - 9:24am

Match Questions

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Do you believe that there exists a statistical correlation between race and intelligence? by Largolocks posted Today - 1:35am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Search settings don't save by KristopherJay posted Today - 11:27am

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Men with profiles marked 'Woman' by obedientdane posted Jan 26 5:52am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Superbowl fires Coldplay then passes out by DiscoJer posted Monday - 3:53pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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when online by BrooklynCenter posted Tuesday - 9:52pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Looking for feedback on my profile by Pufflekun posted Today - 5:01am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Using only a movie title, answer the question from the person above you. by RickB8161966 posted Today - 9:07am


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Did Methlabmegs die? by dragon4gamer posted Today - 10:03am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Dear Atheist by penumbrae posted Today - 1:27am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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The Indecisive Person by MsOtis posted Yesterday - 3:20am


Discussions about life and love.

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Okcupid messenger for Mac by KristopherJay posted Today - 11:29am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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<a href=""> The Fix the Gender Selector Option</a><font="red">Test by Luckiegurrrrrrrl posted Feb 5 9:08pm

Alternative Lifestyles

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foot fetish by VoidsIncision posted Yesterday - 9:29pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Today - 8:01am

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Chicago Zombie Pub Crawl by Largolocks posted Today - 1:37am

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Any Californians still here?? (Esp NorCal) [drops pin] by Sapiosenses posted Saturday - 9:42am