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Help and FAQ

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I haven't had many visitors or messages lately outside of my friends by roxxr posted Today – 7:46pm

Questions From Us To You

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by SharpChris posted Today – 1:30pm

Match Questions

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Your significant other admits to you that they are sexually attracted to animals, specifically sperm whales. Are you: by Jackie_tack posted Dec 15

Rants & Raves

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THANK YOU OKCUPID! (gender) by vvarriors posted Today – 12:56am

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Does a "like" mean they like you? by hummusmonster posted Today – 9:31am

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Success - Failure

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Did this girl do a 180 on me or did I screw up? by TempleMade479 posted Today – 6:08pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What do I suggest we do? by eastknight posted Today – 4:38pm

Profile Suggestions

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Would profile improvements do anything for me? by roxxr posted Today – 9:17am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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LGBTQIA(+) by XenitH686 posted Today – 12:55pm


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Do women care if a guy is a virgin? by eastknight posted Today – 4:20pm

Life Advice

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CWESQ's Trial Balloon by CWESQ posted Today – 5:04pm

Dating Advice

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Dating and braces by roxxr posted Today – 7:16pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Flat-Chested by SixTwentyTwo posted Today – 6:49pm

Hello Quizzy

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by tyrebiter posted Dec 13

Alternative Lifestyles

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Wet Clothes, Anyone? by XenitH686 posted Today – 12:03pm

Unmitigated Drama

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the word association game by SixTwentyTwo posted Today – 6:59pm

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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1