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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Advice needed on the status of my flags, and flagging pics with no face by sandyvs posted Today – 10:32pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by bamalivesalot posted Today – 10:29pm

Match Questions

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Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own skin color / racial background? by sandyvs posted Today – 10:42pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Updating the forum? by BiggestCockEver posted 14 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Hello fellow A-Listers. by L-A- posted Today – 6:01pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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who wants to be my girlfrends ? by ultramafic_ posted Today – 7:16pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by MessageAfterTone posted Apr 22

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Post best or worst pics? by Aptherix posted Today – 12:25am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Can we have a Transgender Option? by Jythexinvok posted Apr 18


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big fish small pond v. small fish big pond by raspberry_cloud posted Today – 5:44pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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If you knew there was a way to have eternal life. would you take it? by empirestv007 posted Today – 10:33pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Why do people suddenly stop talking to me? by ChineseAcrobat posted Today – 9:50pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Either give me full access to my page or give me my money back! by L-A- posted 39 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Online Dating Survey by altindistress posted Today – 11:46am

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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does anyone else here go hiking and camping? by La-Ritournelle posted Apr 22

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by sandyvs posted Today – 10:37pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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New Authentic Speed Dating Meetup in Austin, Texas by squigless posted Apr 17