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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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OkCupid user interface downgrade by Sapiosenses posted Today – 3:39am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted 10 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Do you think taxes are justified? by dmed posted May 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Another horrid feature by Sapiosenses posted Today – 3:30am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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The meaning of "liking" a person without giving any explanation by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 3:40pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Cursed with being single forever? by Fuyun posted Yesterday – 10:00pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Find Your Match Online.... by smookypet posted May 25

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Request for ye critique by TryUsingBees posted Yesterday – 4:28pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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how could anyone enjoy being the receiver of anal sex? by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 2:17pm


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS - redux by eastknight posted Yesterday – 3:27pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Danger Will Robinson: Signs You're Dealing With An Asshole by PunkieBrewer posted Yesterday – 7:23am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Not filling out the "Offspring" field in your profile by MsOtis posted 3 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Today – 2:22am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Single looking for a dope couple by iamcherylfaux posted May 24

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Sapiosenses posted 11 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the point of this section? by kriegasaurusrex posted Apr 27