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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Someone else is using my picture as their profile picture by slateofmind posted Today – 7:09pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by longlegsinmx posted 5 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Jul 3

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Why do you hide the "hide" button? by L-A- posted Yesterday – 7:30pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Changing username by ambleandwhee posted Today – 12:13pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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how often do you get women messaging you first ? by henriquesmtron posted Yesterday – 1:18pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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New York - free dancing lessons? by BiggestCockEver posted Jul 6

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Profile Review for just the sheer curiosity of it. by SleazePlease posted Today – 5:01pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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How many guys on here are bi? by witlessfist posted Jul 2


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Men, here is a visual refutation of the "women get better with age" lie by NotAdamSandler posted Yesterday – 7:44pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Service to our Lord by La-Ritournelle posted Jul 4

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Dating Lessons by LakeOFthoughts posted 47 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Accupuncture!!?!?! by LakeOFthoughts posted 23 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by Chaeddd posted Jul 2

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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wargame by calandale1 posted Today – 5:34am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Chain Redaction (new word game) by IWantYourText posted Today – 1:49pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Portland Oregon meet up by confidentmind posted Today – 8:14am