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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Why are my messages not getting through? by fmhs132000 posted 7 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by nothedoctor posted 7 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own skin color / racial background? by ctyslckrv posted Today – 1:56pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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'Replies selectively vs. replies often' by mrjon32 posted Yesterday – 2:25am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Seeing complete mismatches. by mrjon32 posted Oct 19

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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When you hide a profile you don't like it says "they can't all be winners". by BiggestCockEver posted Today – 5:07pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What should I do about having no car? by bigburpboy posted Yesterday – 9:39am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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which should be my profile pic? by broseb posted 28 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Average number of visitors per week by TheBestofTimes2 posted Yesterday – 4:42pm


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NFL WEEK 7 by jay-dee-bee posted Yesterday – 9:09pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Don't feed the yao guai. by weepdot posted Oct 19

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Lonely on OKCupid by Imaginum posted Today – 3:31pm


Discussions about life and love.

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The Random Observation Thread by MisterCreep posted Today – 12:56pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Bonny & Clyde Test by Vrochet_Celours posted Oct 18

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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would u date a zoophile? by jatreyu28 posted Today – 2:53pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by Stealurfries posted Today – 1:33pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1