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Help and FAQ

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How do I search for match questions/themes of questions while *NOT* on another user's profile? by ItWasFate posted Today – 4:47pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AyasImmuneSystm posted 2 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by Xaviersx posted Jan 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Message Strike Announcement by evilpeterparker posted Today – 4:52pm

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Response rate when messaging only those that like you by Notadjembefola posted Today – 2:08pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Why do girls not respond here? by Luc83 posted Today – 11:39am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by amp-here posted Jan 27

Profile Suggestions

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Not having much luck getting respones. Critiques welcome! by TryUsingBees posted Today – 7:38pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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I Went to school with some kid who i just found out is in this band thats pretty popular by Donnie_Walsh posted Today – 4:28pm


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Wolf Whistles etc. and does it actually work or is it just chasing off women? by roxxr posted Yesterday – 3:58pm

Life Advice

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Your girlfriend is cheating on you. What's the worst place for her to be "doing it"? by amp-here posted Yesterday – 7:14am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Meeting women at the gym by BurnAfterViewing posted Today – 4:59pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Atheism, Geeks, and rejection. by atomicturtle posted 20 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by picknch00se posted Jan 20

Alternative Lifestyles

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Lack of support for fora sucks by In-The-Flow posted Jan 26

Unmitigated Drama

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Just now!

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by katelynblackart posted Jan 24