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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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How do I report someone? by Sushibitch posted Yesterday – 11:44pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Apr 24

Match Questions

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What is the worst kind of sandwich by MsOtis posted Apr 26

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Fake Profiles: Men listing themselves as women. by Sushibitch posted Today – 1:48am

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THE Definitive "Blocking" Thread by 3l3v8r posted Yesterday – 4:20am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Online Dating Frustrations by MsOtis posted Today – 12:57am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by Sushibitch posted Today – 1:50am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Why don't people reply to me? by MsOtis posted Today – 12:40am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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How many guys on here are bi? by DarrelDarell posted Yesterday – 9:00pm


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Something funny about torture...with images by Divis1onbyzer0 posted Yesterday – 10:55pm

Life Advice

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Scientists have uncovered why hipsters grow beards by roxxr posted Yesterday – 9:34am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Not succeeding in getting chicks. by MsOtis posted Today – 1:12am


Discussions about life and love.

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Why are asian women in particular afraid to approach/speak with me? by Sushibitch posted 15 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Why are most poly people on here fat, into video games, renfaires, and wiccan? by ctsnola posted Apr 24

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by 1964jewel posted Yesterday – 6:37pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the fucking point of this section? by kriegasaurusrex posted Yesterday – 7:57pm