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Help and FAQ

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Moderation Acronyms? by sandyvs posted Today – 6:52am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by sandyvs posted Today – 2:05pm

Match Questions

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"Wherefore art thou Romeo!" What does "wherefore" mean in this context? by 2knees posted Nov 18

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Sharing the most typical, most annoying, stupidest or ironic snippets of profiles. by Kaitzschu posted Today – 3:18pm

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How to spot a fake profile? by mr_anderson32 posted Nov 11

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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why women don't respond when not interested by ctsnola posted Today – 1:49pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How do you respond to "hi"? by Darjeeling19 posted Nov 17

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Profile critique by Sushibitch posted Today – 1:35pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Add trans identities to OkCupid by sommermädchen posted Nov 18


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What is the point of anal sex? by calandale1 posted Nov 18

Life Advice

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CWESQ's Trial Balloon by CWESQ posted Yesterday – 8:11pm

Dating Advice

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Political Bulletin Board by roxxr posted Today – 1:02pm


Discussions about life and love.

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this is a liberal forum with no christian republicans left to cackle their backwards dogma that fucks up the world. by NotAdamSandler posted 44 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by ILookLikeADouche posted Nov 17

Alternative Lifestyles

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wargame by ctsnola posted Today – 11:51am

Unmitigated Drama

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Bad Netsex by sandyvs posted Today – 1:55pm

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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1