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Help and FAQ

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Why are guys showing up as matches? by ItWasFate posted Yesterday – 6:03pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Jul 26

Match Questions

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Do you think women have an obligation to keep their legs shaved? by CammieObscura posted Jul 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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$1 to send somebody a message because you are outside their age range? by book_reader-too posted 25 minutes ago

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This is a badass article that kinda explains one of the big flaws of online dating. by Sapiosenses posted Jul 27

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Such a wonderful day by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 11:44pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Would you rather a guys smile in their profile yes or no? by yogaran posted Jul 23

Profile Suggestions

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Profile Critique Please by bamboozledguy posted Yesterday – 5:11pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Gay marriage now legal across the USA by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 11:42pm


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Do you think I'm pretty? Do I make you feel like cheating? by CellularDoor posted Yesterday – 6:30pm

Life Advice

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How do you imagine your life in terms of friendship if you had this medical condition I dealt with? by roxxr posted Jul 25

Dating Advice

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Had a really quiet date, couldn't read "signs" by nowavenoise posted 4 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 12:21am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

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Instant profile 'deal breakers'? by mcdistasteful posted Yesterday – 1:56pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted 57 minutes ago

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Past Meetups

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26