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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Users not appearing in Match search by PlayfairCipher posted 40 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Red_Eve posted Jun 27

Match Questions

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Is it easy for you to achieve orgasm? by superguh posted Yesterday – 7:31pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Excessive FAKE account (Ghana/W. Africa) by roxxr posted Today – 5:59am

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View a match's answers without answering the same questions by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 11:50pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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When you spot someone in public who turned you down on here or other dating site? by HaroldSnepsts posted 16 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Would you rather a guys smile in their profile yes or no? by Sapiosenses posted Jul 4

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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How to Win at Ok Cupid by Al408 posted Today – 2:10pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Riis Beach clothing optional part by roxxr posted Jul 5


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Are you fond of Women with long hair by roxxr posted Today – 8:34am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Am I Saved by Vrochet_Celours posted 6 minutes ago

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Message Timing Etiquette by wutsthishere posted Today – 4:10pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Aren't Some Accents Just Too Silly? by FrokTeling posted Today – 3:06pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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sweater fetish by roxxr posted Today – 5:29am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Sapiosenses posted Today – 3:40pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26