Nicholas2430

Jan 4, 2013

When going through questions women have answered on their profiles whenever I come upon a question pertaining to sex that includes the answer "I'm a virgin" or something similar it's ALWAYS an unacceptable answer(save for the odd wait till marriage ones who also happen to be conservatives that I want nothing to do with) and worse yet whenever I question them about this they go off on a tirade against me and don't answer my question in any way other than that they "just don't like virgins" which is in no way, shape or form an explanation.

Don't the women on that this is a free dating site and not a bar? The majority of men using this site are  losers making a last resort.

fineinthefire

Jan 4, 2013

Dude you can choose what to answer and what not to answer. If sex questions aren't your area of expertise skip em. Answer what you think is important.They don't you know unless you tell.

As for a direct answer to your question:

maybe the girls around you just like getting men with more experience?

Phyrewerx

Jan 4, 2013

Just for clarification- are you asking women in general or is that how you're making conversation with women that you're interested in?

Because if it's the latter, that's a terrible strategy.

fineinthefire

Jan 4, 2013

I have never had a girlfriend in any capacity in all my life(never had sex, never kissed, no type of date of any sort, never ANYTHING), I'll just say that right now and I haven't had any luck at all finding even anything resembling a potential girlfriend on this site in the two years I've been using it(as of January 2013), I know that apparently the idea of a grown man who hasn't ever had a girlfriend seems to be a turnoff to the majority of women on this site and for the life of me I can't even begin to fathom why that it ever would be and whenever I question them about this they go off on a tirade against me.
I guess that the main reason that I have never had a girlfriend in any capacity at all is because I've long expected women to approach me.
Never accepting a woman who has any of my ultimate dealbreakers as shown above is a very high contributing factor as well especially when I live in the part of the country that I do but I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than have to lower my standards to something I don't want, I have something called morals.

*facepalm and shudders in "fear"*

When the hell I'll ever finally get a girlfriend and be able to move out of my dads house.

Someone promise me they'll slap the black off me if I get this bad again  please! No just strangle me instead.

OP delete that bullshit IMMEDIATELY or delete your account. Those are the only two choices for you ever.

Phyrewerx

Jan 4, 2013

Just read your profile, OP

*reaches for emergency scotch in desk drawer*

It's a new year. Perhaps you would consider revamping your profile?

 

fineinthefire

Jan 4, 2013

Thank u.

*steals scotch from Coraline*

*hic*, and get your ass down to DAF and lurk/read threads or post occasional questions.

Will they rip your ass to shreds yes, but you might learn something.

God I do not want to be you.

Your thread/profile....it.....haunts....my soul....now..

And your pictures are CREEPY!

*finishes scotch*

Nicholas2430

Jan 4, 2013

Why would I lie about myself?

fineinthefire

Jan 4, 2013

Why would I lie about myself?

I never said lie. If sex or whatever is a topic that you're uncomfortable with, then don't bring up the subject. Since I actually relate to you (somehow) just erase some questions and leave that which matters to you.

Your negativity is killing you here.

(You OP, hit my IM button, I wanna talk to ya)

mintcandy

Jan 4, 2013

Why would I lie about myself?

There is a difference between telling the truth and emphasizing negative characteristics.

Although this isn't the profile suggestions forum, I'm going to agree with the other posters about the expectations shared in your profile. Women are into interesting fun guys, not guys that complain about their lack of success with women.

Also, it's not a good idea to get into debates with strangers about why they don't find you attractive. Yes, every user you contact is a stranger until you actually meet more than once. Yes, asking them why being a virgin is unattractive IS debating with a stranger.

Why is it not a good idea? Well, mostly because it comes across as overly argumentative/defensive, and most women do not like that. A few might find it creepy that a strange guy asks them what their problem is with virginity or any other attribute that they don't find attractive. Finally, it's a bad idea to ask women for justification for their answers because they really don't owe us any explanation for their answers.

:: shrugs ::

I like Phyrewerx's suggestion. Since it is the New Year, how about modifying your approach and pursuing the women you find attractive instead of expecting them to initiate?

fineinthefire

Jan 4, 2013

Also, it's not a good idea to get into debates with strangers about why they don't find you attractive. Yes, every user you contact is a stranger until you actually meet more than once. Yes, asking them why being a virgin is unattractive IS debating with a stranger.

Why is it not a good idea? Well, mostly because it comes across as overly argumentative/defensive, and most women do not like that. A few might find it creepy that a strange guy asks them what their problem is with virginity or any other attribute that they don't find attractive. Finally, it's a bad idea to ask women for justification for their answers because they really don't owe us any explanation for their answers.

Rea,  think carefully and adapt. or GTFO.

Phyrewerx

Jan 4, 2013

S'up Mintcandy! Hope you had a happy new year!

Nicholas2430

Jan 4, 2013

 

I'm not being "argumentative/defensive" in asking a woman why women always have this as an unacceptable answer, I'm being inquiring as to why it's a problem for all women.

I actually would be lying about myself if I used a cut and paste description of myself.

It's the fourth year of the second decade of the twenty first century how about women getting with the program and pursuing men instead of the burden having to be on us?

 

Some people are just doomed I guess, if you're still a virgin(the type who are adamant about waiting till marriage are exempt) at the age your parents were when you were born(considering they were over the age of 20 when you were born) the chances that you'll ever have sex grow slimmer and slimmer. Like you've said it's a new year and I'll be 27 this year, might as well give up and have my balls removed so I won't care anymore.

 

Phyrewerx

Jan 4, 2013

It's the fourth year of the second decade of the twenty first century how about women getting with the program and pursuing men instead of the burden having to be on us?

LOL at entitlement!

fineinthefire

Jan 4, 2013

Prepare........to.........be..................................TROLLED!

mintcandy

Jan 4, 2013

I'm not being "argumentative/defensive" in asking a woman why women always have this as an unacceptable answer, I'm being inquiring as to why it's a problem for all women.

It is when you question them about the preferences that just happen to exclude you, especially when you are dissatisfied with the answer.

Women don't have to justify who or what they like to ANYONE, the same as it is for dudes.

What if a girl contacted you and started questioning what your problem is with having sex outside of a committed relationship? What if she wasn't satisfied with your answer? Are you obligated to put up with her questions?

It's the fourth year of the second decade of the twenty first century how about women getting with the program and pursuing men instead of the burden having to be on us?

Women will pursue for the right man. Women will not necessarily pursue any man.

Some people are just doomed I guess, if you're still a virgin(the type who are adamant about waiting till marriage are exempt) at the age your parents were when you were born(considering they were over the age of 20 when you were born) the chances that you'll ever have sex grow slimmer and slimmer. Like you've said it's a new year and I'll be 27 this year, might as well give up and have my balls removed so I won't care anymore.

With all due respect, this type of inflexibility and downer thinking is what makes me think that you aren't ready for a relationship.

You emphasize not having had a relationship nor sex as though it is THE reason to have a relationship with you. Furthermore, you refuse to initiate communicating with women you find attractive. I mean, if you were a woman, would you want to talk to a guy like that?

The biggest hurdle isn't the lack of relationships/sex. It's that you aren't trying to focus on and appeal to women who won't find those things to be an issue.

fineinthefire

Jan 4, 2013

yo

https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf

 

Good luck

StayClssySD

Jan 4, 2013

Although most of the information posted here is true, I'll address the OPs question directly.

It is a problem for all women because they don't want the emotional attachment that comes from a virgin.

Also, women do pursue men, quite frequently.

corn_dog_soup

Jan 4, 2013

whenever I question them about this they go off on a tirade against me and don't answer my question in any way other than that they "just don't like virgins" 

 

It's likely not the whole virginity dilemma that's ultimately turning them away.  Could it possibly be your piece of shit attitude?  I think so.  Not trying to be an asshole or anything, but you've so many problems that I don't know where to begin.  

 

 

Phyrewerx

Jan 4, 2013

Corndog, did you score those food stamps for us yet?

eastknight

Jan 4, 2013

@OP:

 

Women prefer so because they're considering the possibility of meeting someone 'right' in person, and their definition of right does not encompass someone who'd be searching the vulva trying to find the hole, or someone who cums like a fountain......while she's taking her knickers off.

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