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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Messages not going through by explainthisshlt posted Today – 2:05am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted 3 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by centilliniguy posted Feb 28

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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How did you guys even know there was a forum here? by Anonomati posted Yesterday – 7:41pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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A success that became a failure by Sushibitch posted Yesterday – 8:40am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How many dates have you been on from this website? by evilpeterparker posted Feb 17

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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What color is my dot? Someone let me know! I'll let you know in return. by Deanof316 posted Today – 1:49am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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How many guys on here are bi? by misspinkcupcakes posted Yesterday – 1:36am


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Life Advice

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When You Are Young by itsyoufredo posted Yesterday – 5:40pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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need dating help from a sexy cool lady? by Salaman_ posted Yesterday – 8:26pm


Discussions about life and love.

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How to forget a man? by FrokTeling posted Today – 1:21am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by Bananastand4k posted Feb 24

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Otherkin Anywhere on OkCupid? by KristenWilkey posted Yesterday – 4:58pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Yesterday – 10:08pm

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by Henry_1337 posted Feb 25