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Can't create questions anymore by ReverseCosmosis posted Today – 3:30pm

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Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own skin color / racial background? by ctyslckrv posted Today – 11:02am

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No luck and and so rare the responses by Tim82_pal posted Today – 8:38am

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First date on NYE by BartlettInFC posted Today – 12:10pm

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Not getting any replies is there a way I can make my profile better by Smurf_Pirate posted Today – 11:13am

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Love by ultramafic_ posted Yesterday – 5:21pm

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by tyrebiter posted Dec 13

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Today – 5:01pm

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

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