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Help and FAQ

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Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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Do you think taxes are justified? by dmed posted May 25

Rants & Raves

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Rant: Being Laser Intense Handsome and Interesting get you too many dates. by sarahbop posted 8 minutes ago

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Success - Failure

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Can Someone Explain What Just Happened? by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 10:11pm

Date Suggestions

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Indian guys least desired, I am confused, truth or BS? by lady_dernhelm posted Yesterday – 8:19am

Profile Suggestions

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Young guy looking for critique to maximise Okcupid Experience by Sushibitch posted 40 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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how could anyone enjoy being the receiver of anal sex? by MsOtis posted 45 minutes ago


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Life Advice

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Money by Sapiosenses posted Just now!

Dating Advice

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It's not you, it's them! by Sapiosenses posted 3 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

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Single looking for a dope couple by iamcherylfaux posted May 27

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Past Meetups

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

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New Authentic Speed Dating Meetup in Austin, Texas by ArcadianWarrior posted May 27