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Help and FAQ

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Sent Messages appearing in inbox by BusyBuckeye posted Today – 9:04am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by AyasImmuneSystm posted Today – 1:23pm

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by perspicuous1 posted Today – 12:19pm

Rants & Raves

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master degree by dragonfly531 posted 15 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Success - Failure

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7 types of women you meet on OK Cupid by SeanKHotay posted 27 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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White men by ctyslckrv posted Yesterday – 10:26pm

Profile Suggestions

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A little feedback! by Lukestevo1991 posted Today – 3:08pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Do any Trans* Les/Gay actually get messages or replies? by Sarinane posted Today – 7:52am


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Men, here is a visual refutation of the "women get better with age" lie by ctyslckrv posted Today – 10:52am

Life Advice

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Don't Worry by Dad777-4u posted Today – 3:51am

Dating Advice

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Advice on how to best reply to a jerkyboy/girl message thread by longlegsinmx posted Today – 4:30pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Eddydynamics, Etc by MsOtis posted Today – 3:09pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by SixTwentyTwo posted Aug 20

Alternative Lifestyles

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i wear a suit and tie to work by calandale1 posted Aug 30

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by Stealurfries posted Today – 4:07pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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uk meeting by La-Ritournelle posted Aug 15