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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Profile changes not seen by others? by theyesalbum posted Yesterday – 8:05pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Today – 3:18am

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by centilliniguy posted Feb 28

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Jesus fucking christ, can you stop with the "lol" bullshit already? by misspinkcupcakes posted 56 minutes ago

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Is this site basically 99.9 bs - or do people actually get responses? by ProgGuitarNerd posted Yesterday – 3:17am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Be honest, is being a professional caterer a meal baker? by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 6:10pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by star_warsfangirl posted Today – 2:38am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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I left my ego back there somewhere by TryUsingBees posted Yesterday – 7:01pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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I Went to school with some kid who i just found out is in this band thats pretty popular by Donnie_Walsh posted Yesterday – 10:12pm


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What is the point of anal sex? by misspinkcupcakes posted 45 minutes ago

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Just DO by itsyoufredo posted Today – 3:23am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Would you date a guy whose one and only friend was a girl? by misspinkcupcakes posted 48 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Effeminate, Transgender Or What Ever by FrokTeling posted 35 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by Bananastand4k posted Feb 24

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Otherkin Anywhere on OkCupid? by itsyoufredo posted Today – 3:26am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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FUN Acronyms F_or U_niversal_N(on)atives by AirCupid posted 23 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by Henry_1337 posted Feb 25