May 12, 2013 3:17pm

Is there any trans (MtF, FtM, or SomethingtoSomething) in Southwest Florida? Cape Coral to be exact. I'm having a lot of difficulty finding trans women in my new town, which sucks because I had a lot of trans friends back in DC, who were some of my bestest of friends.


May 13, 2013 7:55am

Yeah, probably.

You could try using okcupid's search function... shit's easy enough.


May 13, 2013 1:19pm

OkCupid has an option for transgenders now? I must have missed that in the search functions. *Sarcasm*


May 13, 2013 1:30pm

or you can just search a keyword, like "trans"?


May 13, 2013 1:31pm

please don't stroll in here with a sub-70 IQ and act like we're the idiots.


May 13, 2013 2:02pm


and how can you chose your friends based on their sense of gender? you never know, u may just get along really well with a cis.


May 13, 2013 2:56pm

Hey now, I'm not the one trying to insult anyone here!
I've tried searching for trans, and transexual, transgendered, etc etc etc. I get no results. None. At all. Maybe I missed a keyword, or maybe there just isn't any transgenders in the area I live in. But please don't insult me, then act like I'm the asshole here.

Also, I'm not picking my friends based on gender, I just like having a variety of friends. Don't assume cause I'm asking about transgenders, that I don't care about any other genders, that's a major fallacy.


May 14, 2013 3:15am

I understand that you didn't mean to be insulting or stupid.

my, yeah! was a bit to hype.

everyone struggles where ever they are to find like minded acquaintances.




May 14, 2013 8:51am

Try this, OP:


May 14, 2013 12:00pm

Thanks! Unfortunately Fort Lauderdale is kinda far away from where I live.


May 14, 2013 12:02pm

Well then make an account and search for yourself. (I'd omit the "make an account" part, but I've found that the search by distance function is absolutely fucked if you're not logged in.)


May 14, 2013 3:30pm

Wow, a lot of different groups. Thanks, I'll trudge through these sometime.


May 14, 2013 10:37pm

OP has a tranny fetish, idk why they are trying to pretend like they don't


May 15, 2013 5:18am

I do, but from experience, I find it's better to search for friends, instead of people to date, since the most important thing in a relationship (IMO) is to have a solid friendship.


May 15, 2013 7:57am

the fact you are a tranny chaser and only a tranny chaser tells me you dont actually have a clue what it is you are looking for other than a sexual preference that has little to do with other emotions.


May 15, 2013 8:48am

I kinda suspected OP was a chaser. :/


May 15, 2013 12:10pm

Yeah, because looking for people you're attracted to is the most evil thing in the world.

This guy does NOT sound like a dehumanizing fetishist to me, just a dude with a preference.


May 15, 2013 1:26pm

op is looking for any type of tranny. op is clearly a chaser


May 15, 2013 1:45pm

I think he just wants to run with the local trans community, and assumes he'll meet someone cool and attractive if he does so.  Really doesn't seem that nefarious to me.


May 15, 2013 3:33pm

Thanks for sticking up for me Daisha. Sadly, this exactly is why dating trans is so complicated. It's hard to prove that you actually care for them as a person, and you're not just out for ass. And I'll have the rest of you know, that my best friend, note FRIEND, as in, we didn't have sex, was a trans. I even went with her to accept a reward during trans pride day.

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