VasuAidon

May 12, 2013

Is there any trans (MtF, FtM, or SomethingtoSomething) in Southwest Florida? Cape Coral to be exact. I'm having a lot of difficulty finding trans women in my new town, which sucks because I had a lot of trans friends back in DC, who were some of my bestest of friends.

Roboscopy

May 13, 2013

Yeah, probably.

You could try using okcupid's search function... shit's easy enough.

VasuAidon

May 13, 2013

OkCupid has an option for transgenders now? I must have missed that in the search functions. *Sarcasm*

daishaface

May 13, 2013

or you can just search a keyword, like "trans"?

daishaface

May 13, 2013

please don't stroll in here with a sub-70 IQ and act like we're the idiots.

VulgarVulva4STD

May 13, 2013

^yeah!

and how can you chose your friends based on their sense of gender? you never know, u may just get along really well with a cis.

VasuAidon

May 13, 2013

Hey now, I'm not the one trying to insult anyone here!
I've tried searching for trans, and transexual, transgendered, etc etc etc. I get no results. None. At all. Maybe I missed a keyword, or maybe there just isn't any transgenders in the area I live in. But please don't insult me, then act like I'm the asshole here.

Also, I'm not picking my friends based on gender, I just like having a variety of friends. Don't assume cause I'm asking about transgenders, that I don't care about any other genders, that's a major fallacy.

VulgarVulva4STD

May 14, 2013

I understand that you didn't mean to be insulting or stupid.

my, yeah! was a bit to hype.

everyone struggles where ever they are to find like minded acquaintances.

 

 

Roboscopy

May 14, 2013

Try this, OP: http://www.meetup.com/Young-Adult-GLBT/

VasuAidon

May 14, 2013

Thanks! Unfortunately Fort Lauderdale is kinda far away from where I live.

Roboscopy

May 14, 2013

Well then make an account and search for yourself. (I'd omit the "make an account" part, but I've found that the search by distance function is absolutely fucked if you're not logged in.)

VasuAidon

May 14, 2013

Wow, a lot of different groups. Thanks, I'll trudge through these sometime.

NoNameIsGood_

May 14, 2013

OP has a tranny fetish, idk why they are trying to pretend like they don't

VasuAidon

May 15, 2013

I do, but from experience, I find it's better to search for friends, instead of people to date, since the most important thing in a relationship (IMO) is to have a solid friendship.

NoNameIsGood_

May 15, 2013

the fact you are a tranny chaser and only a tranny chaser tells me you dont actually have a clue what it is you are looking for other than a sexual preference that has little to do with other emotions.

Roboscopy

May 15, 2013

I kinda suspected OP was a chaser. :/

daishaface

May 15, 2013

Yeah, because looking for people you're attracted to is the most evil thing in the world.

This guy does NOT sound like a dehumanizing fetishist to me, just a dude with a preference.

NoNameIsGood_

May 15, 2013

op is looking for any type of tranny. op is clearly a chaser

daishaface

May 15, 2013

I think he just wants to run with the local trans community, and assumes he'll meet someone cool and attractive if he does so.  Really doesn't seem that nefarious to me.

VasuAidon

May 15, 2013

Thanks for sticking up for me Daisha. Sadly, this exactly is why dating trans is so complicated. It's hard to prove that you actually care for them as a person, and you're not just out for ass. And I'll have the rest of you know, that my best friend, note FRIEND, as in, we didn't have sex, was a trans. I even went with her to accept a reward during trans pride day.

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