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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Why are my messages not getting through? by mrjon32 posted Today – 9:58pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by _Chaz_Brown_ posted Today – 8:59pm

Match Questions

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Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own skin color / racial background? by mrjon32 posted Today – 9:27pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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'Replies selectively vs. replies often' by mrjon32 posted Yesterday – 2:25am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Opinions on A-list. by GeekInDallas posted Today – 9:33pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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When you hide a profile you don't like it says "they can't all be winners". by mrjon32 posted Today – 9:41pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What should I do about having no car? by bigburpboy posted Yesterday – 9:39am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Examples of Great Profiles.... by adorant posted 37 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Average number of visitors per week by TheBestofTimes2 posted Yesterday – 4:42pm


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NFL WEEK 7 by jay-dee-bee posted Yesterday – 9:09pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Don't feed the yao guai. by weepdot posted Oct 19

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Will you be my sugar daddy? by Sushibitch posted Today – 9:57pm


Discussions about life and love.

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atomicturtle's journal by atomicturtle posted 41 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Bonny & Clyde Test by Vrochet_Celours posted Oct 18

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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would u date a zoophile? by jatreyu28 posted Today – 2:53pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by Stealurfries posted Today – 1:33pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1