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"Match" menu shows less results, what's happening? by westminsterLocks posted Yesterday - 11:47pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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Your Top 3 FAQ Questions? by Sapiosenses posted Saturday - 9:24am

Match Questions

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Do you believe that there exists a statistical correlation between race and intelligence? by westminsterLocks posted Yesterday - 11:43pm

Rants & Raves

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Success - Failure

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Superbowl fires Coldplay then passes out by DiscoJer posted Monday - 3:53pm

Date Suggestions

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when online by BrooklynCenter posted Yesterday - 9:52pm

Profile Suggestions

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Suggestions on my profile by ZackTheTraveler posted Today - 1:04pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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"Why Do All LGBTQ Films Have Sad Endings?" by PunkieBrewer posted Jan 27 3:07am


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by VoidsIncision posted Sunday - 9:45pm

Life Advice

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Dear Atheist by penumbrae posted Today - 11:53am

Dating Advice

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The Indecisive Person by MsOtis posted Today - 3:20am


Discussions about life and love.

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Hello Quizzy

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Alternative Lifestyles

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Dominant woman in Seattle by superguh posted Feb 4 8:58am

Unmitigated Drama

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Today - 12:59am

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Past Meetups

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Chicago Zombie Pub Crawl by Sapiosenses posted Jan 31 11:58am

Group Meetups

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Any Californians still here?? (Esp NorCal) [drops pin] by Sapiosenses posted Saturday - 9:42am