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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Hyperlinks by WhatIfDrift posted Today – 5:06pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by gaffer956 posted Today – 3:50pm

Match Questions

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Should Gay Marriage and/or Civil Unions for commited Homosexual Couples be legalized in the entire United States? by Chaeddd posted Yesterday – 6:00am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Don't show matches I sent an email to when browsing the matches by Gentle_2013 posted Today – 3:16pm

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did she read my message?? or have I been blocked HELP! by BartlettInFC posted 6 minutes ago

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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How accurate are match percentages? by bluemoon1227 posted Jul 11

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Coffee's too expensive for dirtbags by booksandbourbon posted Yesterday – 1:35am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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What's wrong with my profile ? by Sushibitch posted Today – 8:00am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Add trans identities to OkCupid by empirestv007 posted Yesterday – 10:28pm


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The First Church of IsntThisFun of Later Day Attention Whores by Puppet_ posted Today – 12:09pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Service to our Lord by La-Ritournelle posted Jul 4

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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6' or taller only by Salaman_ posted 20 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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WHEN THE FUCK IS THIS GODDAM SOCCER SHIT GOING TO END? by rustydov posted Today – 3:36pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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WHAT is the NAME of the Poster ABOVE you by Chaeddd posted Jul 2

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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How do you find a Dom. by supersensualist posted Yesterday – 10:26pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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If you know what I mean.... by IWantYourText posted Today – 4:19pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Portland Oregon meet up by Chaeddd posted Yesterday – 4:25am