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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted May 30

Match Questions

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Do you think taxes are justified? by dmed posted May 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Rant: If you send me a canned message... by andyisgreen posted Today – 12:36am

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Success - Failure

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Cursed with being single forever? by Sushibitch posted Yesterday – 11:12pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Indian guys least desired, I am confused, truth or BS? by Team_Ram_Rod posted Yesterday – 10:53pm

Profile Suggestions

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Young guy looking for critique to maximise Okcupid Experience by LoveSeeker992 posted Today – 12:07am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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how could anyone enjoy being the receiver of anal sex? by Sapiosenses posted 14 minutes ago


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women with sexy legs on okstupid by nikogtaiv posted Yesterday – 8:32pm

Life Advice

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Money by Sapiosenses posted Today – 12:15am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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It's not you, it's them! by Sushibitch posted 7 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Single looking for a dope couple by iamcherylfaux posted May 27

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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What song are you listening to RIGHT NOW? by La-Ritournelle posted Yesterday – 1:11pm

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Past Meetups

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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New Authentic Speed Dating Meetup in Austin, Texas by ArcadianWarrior posted May 27