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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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How to keep another user from seeing me. by spacewaterjess posted Yesterday – 3:52am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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Your Top 3 FAQ Questions? by roxxr posted Today – 7:08am

Match Questions

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If you flipped three pennies, what would be the odds that they all came out the same? by NotAdamSandler posted Yesterday – 5:32am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Sharing the most typical, most annoying, stupidest or ironic snippets of profiles. by stylele posted Yesterday – 6:24pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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How many pages can you staple together? by roxxr posted Yesterday – 6:56am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Is online dating considered addictive? by go_whale1 posted Today – 8:15am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Did I Give My Number Too Soon? by sarahbop posted Oct 7

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Profile needs fixing(?) Please review by HaroldSnepsts posted Yesterday – 4:26pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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how could anyone enjoy being the receiver of anal sex? by eat-pray-die posted Oct 2


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Wet clothes? by Vrochet_Celours posted 10 minutes ago

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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MGTOW by Vrochet_Celours posted Today – 5:22am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Is there a way to avoid this? by Vrochet_Celours posted 37 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Changing things by Vrochet_Celours posted 30 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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I can't edit my test by e2ewe posted Oct 11

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Teleiophilia by La-Ritournelle posted Oct 8

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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What song are you listening to RIGHT NOW? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 5:31am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by i_am_RickyTko posted Sep 29

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Geeky West Suburban Chicago Meetup Idea by tripfrog posted Sep 15