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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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2+ hour delay for msg & post notifications by longlegsinmx posted Today – 8:31pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Jul 26

Match Questions

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Do you think women have an obligation to keep their legs shaved? by CammieObscura posted Jul 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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I hate being single. and I'm baaaack! I guess? by Manofbeard posted Today – 7:54pm

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Women sending the first message... yes or no? by Save_A-Horse posted Today – 12:20am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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messages fail by CellularDoor posted Today – 2:46pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why should the guy want more than sex? by CellularDoor posted Yesterday – 5:56pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Improvements to my profile? by BamaJoe posted Today – 3:38am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Demisexuality by s6ixtyf4our posted Today – 9:17pm


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For the MMA Fans by jay-dee-bee posted Today – 7:26pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Self by Dad777-4u posted Today – 9:21pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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If you're not interested... by s6ixtyf4our posted Today – 8:06pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Diet Sprite. by roxxr posted Today – 9:30am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Americans Flocking to China by roxxr posted Today – 9:39am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Today – 12:46am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26