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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Messages not sending? by jodyrayawethome posted Yesterday – 4:56pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Jul 26

Match Questions

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Do you think women have an obligation to keep their legs shaved? by CammieObscura posted Jul 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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I hate being single. and I'm baaaack! I guess? by Sushibitch posted 17 minutes ago

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posting income for a woman by lulubel461 posted Yesterday – 4:51am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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OKC may be biased and sexist? by Intense_City posted Yesterday – 2:45pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why should the guy want more than sex? by Laetifah posted Yesterday – 1:48pm

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Help my profile please!!! by classicr0ck posted Yesterday – 8:49pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Gay marriage now legal across the USA by CammieObscura posted Yesterday – 9:02pm


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Do you think I'm pretty? Do I make you feel like cheating? by wan2bfriends posted Yesterday – 2:31pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Pictures by wan2bfriends posted Yesterday – 2:28pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Political Bulletin Board by Phyrewerx posted Yesterday – 7:18pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Fave movie quotes by dmed posted 19 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Instant profile 'deal breakers'? by CellularDoor posted Yesterday – 9:15am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted 3 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26