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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Sent messages do not reach any recipient (while I can receive messages) by Aphrodisius posted Today – 12:24am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by SteveG60 posted Today – 2:17am

Match Questions

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You are watching a low-brow comedy film. One of the characters is crossing a bridge and is suddenly struck with explosive diarrhea. He squats over the bridge and lets it out, with lots of grunting and pooting, and it lands on someone crossing under the b by roxxr posted Yesterday – 1:37pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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[suggestion]More info on front page please. by palacsintak posted Oct 28

A-List General Discussion A-List

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The 90+% Conundrum by Wilko_NL posted Oct 25

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Why do girls not respond here? by mrjon32 posted 53 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What should I do about having no car? by corn_dog_soup posted Oct 23

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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put a shirt on by BiggestCockEver posted 7 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Who made you turn gay? by el-lobo posted 49 minutes ago


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Any OG OKCSF posters still around? by Sarah-Leslie posted Oct 28

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Don't feed the yao guai. by palacsintak posted Oct 26

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Political Bulletin Board by Phyrewerx posted 58 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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Fake profiles? by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 2:57pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by roxxr posted Oct 28

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Watersports fetish? by Will_F posted Oct 26

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by BiggestCockEver posted 9 minutes ago

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1