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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Not getting messages or visitors by cass_uk posted 56 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Mask_and_Mirror posted 48 minutes ago

Match Questions

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What do you think of a person who is over 18 and a virgin? by Icarus282 posted May 2

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Why do so many people leave out their basic details? by HappyMarisol posted Yesterday – 8:26pm

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by MrPypes posted Yesterday – 8:58am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Did that entire thread started by that sovereignlove dude get deleted? by Sushibitch posted 40 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How many dates have you been on from this website? by ctsnola posted May 2

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Please give me feedback about my profile. by Sushibitch posted 38 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Still not sure what the "queer community" is supposed to mean by ctsnola posted May 2


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What's better? Big brain or a air head? by dragon4gamer posted 20 minutes ago

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Not Going To Listen by sarahbop posted Yesterday – 10:38pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Not succeeding in getting chicks. by justinanerd posted Yesterday – 3:03pm


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Yesterday – 11:27pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Are poly women more responsive in general or did I just get better at this? by Rodney69 posted Yesterday – 1:21am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Yesterday – 6:49pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the point of this section? by kriegasaurusrex posted Apr 27