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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Match Question Feature by Sushibitch posted Today – 5:43am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by KevinnNOVA posted Today – 3:45am

Match Questions

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Should wealthier people pay higher taxes? by VoidsIncision posted Nov 21

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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This is how I hate myself. by Sushibitch posted 6 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Women sending the first message... yes or no? by blueyesingleguy posted Yesterday – 10:02am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Damaged my friendship with the only girl(not from a dating site) that did stuff with me by HaroldSnepsts posted 33 minutes ago

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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When you don't want to feel like a leech by cornbredx posted Oct 16

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Hello OKC community, can please critique my profile? by Jeb-813 posted Today – 6:17am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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How long do you have to be celibate to stop counting as gay? by MsOtis posted Nov 23


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How Often Happy Couples Have Sex ~ by Vrochet_Celours posted Nov 20

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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What have you learned about yourself on OKC? by purplerider1200 posted Yesterday – 7:26pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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International Men's Day by Sushibitch posted Today – 1:22am


Discussions about life and love.

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How screwed am I as a bald guy? by Sushibitch posted Today – 4:43am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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The How to Handle Your Horse on Mud Tires test part 1 of 2, by roxxr by La-Ritournelle posted Nov 14

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Fetlife names by ubrut1 posted 53 minutes ago

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Nov 20

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Chicago Zombie Pub Crawl by roxxr posted Oct 29

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Portland Oregon meet up by hiker2space posted Nov 23