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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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New message format too cramped. by TheKingsley posted Yesterday – 5:07pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Sapiosenses posted Jul 26

Match Questions

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Do you think women have an obligation to keep their legs shaved? by CammieObscura posted Jul 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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"You're way out of their age range!" (You CANNOT message them!) ? by Sushibitch posted 48 minutes ago

A-List General Discussion A-List

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posting income for a woman by lulubel461 posted Jul 29

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Puzzled by Informavore posted Today – 1:58am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why should the guy want more than sex? by Laetifah posted Jul 29

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Stereotype the person above you with a glance at their main photo! by sickbeatsbro posted Yesterday – 8:46pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Gay marriage now legal across the USA by superguh posted Jul 30


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Do you think I'm pretty? Do I make you feel like cheating? by wan2bfriends posted Today – 1:12am

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Pictures by wan2bfriends posted Jul 29

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Getting women to ask you (men) out: by TryUsingBees posted Yesterday – 6:57pm


Discussions about life and love.

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In This Thread— by FrokTeling posted Yesterday – 9:03am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Instant profile 'deal breakers'? by CellularDoor posted Jul 29

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Let's write a happy story together. (five words each, please) by sandyvs posted Today – 12:53am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26