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Help and FAQ

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ONLINE PREDATORS, CON ARTISTS, SCAMMERS by cocosmama posted Today – 2:14pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by Lorry posted Today – 3:23pm

Match Questions

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"Wherefore art thou Romeo!" What does "wherefore" mean in this context? by Naturegurl1 posted Nov 22

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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name an item that gets you laid: by lIIjohnIII posted Today – 11:29am

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unblock my messages by Berkzerk posted Today – 11:48am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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No Reply by ctsnola posted Today – 2:00pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How do I plan a date with this girl? by GeorgeForeman69 posted Today – 4:20pm

Profile Suggestions

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Brutally critique my page please! by kusumar posted Today – 3:14pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Demisexuality by Keikuri posted Today – 10:56am


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What is the point of anal sex? by corn_dog_soup posted 43 minutes ago

Life Advice

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President Bush by Dad777-4u posted Today – 5:20am

Dating Advice

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How early is "too early," to have sex when pursuing a relationship? by Tenon posted Today – 1:19pm


Discussions about life and love.

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A Practical Guide for Polite Behaviour Among Strangers and Co-Workers: by FrokTeling posted Today – 3:46pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Can you tell if the lady you've been dating is ready to have sex with you? by Jackie_tack posted Yesterday – 4:19am

Alternative Lifestyles

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wargame by La-Ritournelle posted Nov 22

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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ABC...word game: Another Agonizing Attempt At Anything by BiggestCockEver posted Yesterday – 4:02pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1