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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Hidden users broken by Steelersgirl76 posted Today – 6:11pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Red_Eve posted Jun 27

Match Questions

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When you are angry or frustrated, do you ever throw, smash, kick, hit inanimate objects (non-living things)? by SolidWryGuy posted Jul 3

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Why are there so many bisexual girls here? by aliensyndrome posted Yesterday – 7:23pm

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View a match's answers without answering the same questions by thusisit posted 3 minutes ago

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Swimming season is opened! by Tulefel posted Yesterday – 1:49pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Would you rather a guys smile in their profile yes or no? by Sapiosenses posted Yesterday – 9:12am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Getting no replies - Advice NEEDED by Save_A-Horse posted Yesterday – 11:33pm

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Riis Beach clothing optional part by roxxr posted Today – 4:05pm


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"Sapiosexual" by DeadPoetScience posted Today – 3:47pm

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Am I Saved by Vrochet_Celours posted Today – 6:23pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Message Timing Etiquette by sarahbop posted Today – 3:04pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Diet Sprite. by roxxr posted Today – 5:33pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by yogaran posted Jun 9

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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sweater fetish by roxxr posted Today – 5:11pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Sapiosenses posted Today – 4:24pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Detroit ( Mt. Clemens ) by mcpueblo posted Jun 26