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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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So, What's Up With OKC Choosing a Profile Pic for People by evilpeterparker posted Today – 11:06am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by polyAVD posted Apr 24

Match Questions

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What is the worst kind of sandwich by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 1:00pm

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Why do so many people leave out their basic details? by roxxr posted Today – 9:01am

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THE Definitive "Blocking" Thread by 3l3v8r posted Today – 4:20am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Are there any decent women on this site? by MsOtis posted Today – 8:40am

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Tall Men by mattdubb posted Today – 7:35am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Why don't people reply to me? by CarlLee_ posted Today – 10:54am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Barely Any Lesbians by Neequxsan posted Apr 17


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LETS PLAY BANG OR PASS - redux by cass_uk posted Apr 23

Life Advice

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Scientists have uncovered why hipsters grow beards by roxxr posted Today – 9:34am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Girl shows interest but sometimes ignores me!! Need advice by HaroldSnepsts posted Today – 6:09am


Discussions about life and love.

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Bruce Jenner and Diane Sawyer interview by MsOtis posted Today – 10:40am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Yesterday – 10:21am

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Why are most poly people on here fat, into video games, renfaires, and wiccan? by ctsnola posted Apr 24

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by sandyvs posted Today – 4:55am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Any Californians still here?? (Esp NorCal) [drops pin] by Sapiosenses posted Apr 12