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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Not getting messages or visitors by cass_uk posted 42 minutes ago

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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New Site Design questions / comments by Stealurfries posted Today – 12:08pm

Match Questions

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What do you think of a person who is over 18 and a virgin? by Icarus282 posted Yesterday – 11:47am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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DTF no thanks by sarahbop posted Today – 11:59am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Why did she stop? by MrPypes posted Today – 8:58am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Did that entire thread started by that sovereignlove dude get deleted? by Sushibitch posted Today – 12:49pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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How many dates have you been on from this website? by ctsnola posted Yesterday – 5:55am

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Suggestions for a casual-dating profile by Sushibitch posted Today – 6:33am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Still not sure what the "queer community" is supposed to mean by ctsnola posted Yesterday – 7:28pm


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Something funny about torture...with images by Divis1onbyzer0 posted Apr 27

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Not Going To Listen by sarahbop posted Today – 12:24pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Not succeeding in getting chicks. by taylorkarras posted Today – 1:01pm


Discussions about life and love.

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Bruce Jenner and Diane Sawyer interview by fivesider posted Today – 11:53am

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Word Nerd: Fun words by MrBitterMan posted Apr 26

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Are poly women more responsive in general or did I just get better at this? by Rodney69 posted Today – 1:21am

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Today – 6:34am

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by controversyatx posted Apr 5

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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What is even the point of this section? by kriegasaurusrex posted Apr 27