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Help and FAQ

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Filtering search results by THEIR preferences or interests by Neequxsan posted Today – 4:52pm

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by JTToad posted Yesterday – 3:01pm

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by Xaviersx posted Jan 25

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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snow? by BiggestCockEver posted Today – 7:02pm

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Can there be a "my kids are >18" selection for Offspring? by sandyvs posted Yesterday – 1:43pm

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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fail - snow by BiggestCockEver posted Today – 7:03pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Why don't more women voluntarily write messages to guys? by amp-here posted Today – 4:50am

Profile Suggestions

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A little feedback would be much appreciated by TryUsingBees posted Today – 9:50am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Do any Trans* Les/Gay actually get messages or replies? by RickB8161966 posted Yesterday – 5:58pm


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Wolf Whistles etc. and does it actually work or is it just chasing off women? by sarahbop posted Today – 2:39am

Life Advice

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Your girlfriend is cheating on you. What's the worst place for her to be "doing it"? by corn_dog_soup posted Yesterday – 12:30pm

Dating Advice

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Would you date a guy whose one and only friend was a girl? by fizzlykittens posted Today – 4:05pm


Discussions about life and love.

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How do you have more interesting conversations on this site? by BiggestCockEver posted 35 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Best animated movie ever? by picknch00se posted Jan 20

Alternative Lifestyles

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Lack of support for fora sucks by In-The-Flow posted Yesterday – 12:08pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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the word association game by BiggestCockEver posted Today – 7:31pm

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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by katelynblackart posted Jan 24