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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Messages not going through by MsOtis posted Today – 12:21am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by misspinkcupcakes posted Yesterday – 11:03pm

Match Questions

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Have you reached answering 10,000 questions yet? by centilliniguy posted Feb 28

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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Vincent blew Marvins brains out. Was it really an accident? by misspinkcupcakes posted Yesterday – 10:47pm

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How do you check time stamp on pics? by corn_dog_soup posted Mar 1

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Why do girls not respond here? by BacchusPlateau posted Yesterday – 9:55pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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Tall Men by star_warsfangirl posted Yesterday – 3:57pm

Profile Suggestions

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Ok, I can take the heat...let's do this. by girlisstrange posted Yesterday – 10:45am

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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Why am I a match for guys? by MsOtis posted Yesterday – 11:44pm


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Is sex good or bad.?.>? by MsOtis posted Today – 1:15am

Life Advice

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Just DO by MsOtis posted Today – 1:26am

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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How come basically no women on OK Cupid like video games? by Sushibitch posted 47 minutes ago


Discussions about life and love.

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What is a thinking man's strategy for finding girls with big tits on okcupid among all the flat chested riff raff? by FrokTeling posted 26 minutes ago

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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4,301 Questions Answered in Improve Matches by Bananastand4k posted Feb 24

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Otherkin Anywhere on OkCupid? by KristenWilkey posted Yesterday – 4:24pm

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by Tulefel posted Yesterday – 10:41pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19, 2014

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Baltimore/DC by Henry_1337 posted Feb 25