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Help and FAQ

All about OkCupid, how it works, and how to get around. Much more useful than our actual FAQ page.

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Formatting and editing posts and comments by bas1911 posted Yesterday – 6:50am

Questions From Us To You

Every once in a while we get the crazy urge to ask our lovely users their opinions on OkCupid. This is where that hot action happens.

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What's Going on in Flagmod / Report Moderation? by ninjado posted 8 minutes ago

Match Questions

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Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own skin color / racial background? by mrjon32 posted Today – 2:08am

Rants & Raves

Love a feature we added? Hate a change we made so much you're frothing at the mouth? Post your rants and raves about OkCupid here.

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'Replies selectively vs. replies often' by mrjon32 posted Today – 2:25am

A-List General Discussion A-List

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Seeing complete mismatches. by mrjon32 posted Yesterday – 3:35am

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Success - Failure

Did you meet your Significant Other on OkCupid? Are you getting married? Were your new match's pictures a wild departure from what they looked like in person? Post all your successes and failures here.

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Don't know what to message women/girls after I look at their profile by 1nfern0 posted Yesterday – 10:16pm

Date Suggestions

Your woo of the week agreed to meet you in person, but now you're at a loss on where to go and what to do. Help your fellow OkCupidians plan dates or get help planning dates here.

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What should I do about having no car? by mrjon32 posted Oct 15

Profile Suggestions

Help others with the content of their profile or get suggestions on your own.

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Me, myself and I! by ninjado posted 32 minutes ago

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Discussions for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans, and Questioning users.

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picky? by gamercody posted Yesterday – 9:38pm


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NFL WEEK 7 by jay-dee-bee posted Oct 18

Life Advice

Seeking any help that doesn't fit into the "Love Advice" forum? Post here.

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Don't feed the yao guai. by weepdot posted Yesterday – 1:36pm

Dating Advice

Post questions here, and you'll get advice from the OkCupid community. Everyone: be gentle.

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Lonely on OKCupid by el-lobo posted Yesterday – 11:49am


Discussions about life and love.

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moderation we need actual options? by gamercody posted Yesterday – 9:36pm

Hello Quizzy

Hello Quizzy is where tests are fun! Discuss interesting tests, tips and tricks for test creation, and get feedback for your latest test.

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Bonny & Clyde Test by Vrochet_Celours posted Oct 18

Alternative Lifestyles

If you are worried about offending the mainstream post here.

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Fetlife names by ChicagoJimbo posted Oct 18

Unmitigated Drama

For people who love that sort of thing.

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Answer each question by asking a question. by NotAdamSandler posted Yesterday – 6:34pm

Get Togethers
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Past Meetups

Interested in seeing what cities have had events, or sharing pics and stories from meetups you've already attended? Post here.

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Please review by La-Ritournelle posted Jan 19

Group Meetups

Want to plan or attend a group OkCupid meetup in your area? This is the place!

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Philadelphia - Mill Creek Farm Weed Dating by myrtlepurtle posted Oct 1