Connections

Organizing your Visitors, Favorites, and Ratings.

Visitors

Seeing Who Visited Your Profile

A list of your recent visitors appears on your Welcome page. You can see a longer list on the Visitors page.

Browsing Anonymously

If you don’t want OkCupid members to know you visited their profile, you can choose to browse anonymously. Learn more about it on our Privacy help page.

Favorites

View Your Favorites

Favorites appear in your sidebar (under your profile image and your sidebar matches). If you don't see all your Favorites listed, expand the list by clicking “Show offline favorites.”

You can also view all your Favorites on your Favorites page.

Adding Favorites

To add someone to your Favorites list, visit that person’s profile and click the “Save” button in the top right.

Removing Favorites

To remove someone from your Favorites, click the “X” next to their username in the left-hand sidebar.

You can also go to the person’s profile and click the “Remove” button (it’s in exactly the same place “Save” was before you added them).

Lastly, on your Favorites page, you can hover over the person until the “Remove” button appears.

We don’t alert the person if you remove them from your Favorites. It’ll be our little secret!

Ratings

Rating Other Profiles

There are three ways to rate profiles:

  1. You can rate potential matches in Quickmatch.
  2. When you visit a profile, you can give that person a star rating at the top-right, under “Your rating of him/her.”
  3. On your Favorites page, you can give star ratings to your saved favorites.

To learn more about how ratings are used to match you with others, take a look at the Quickmatch help page.

Editing A Past Rating

You can adjust any past rating wherever that rating appears: on someone’s profile, on the Who You Like page, and on your Favorites page.

Just hover over their current rating and select a new number of stars to give them.

View All Ratings

We have a lovely Who You Like page where you can view all the profiles you’ve rated.

From here, you can re-rate profiles.