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    43 / M / Straight / La Jolla, California Match % Unknown Join to find out!

    This is more of a stream of consciousness than a "profile". It has things that interest me but it is in no way all encompassing. If you are still reading and remotely interested, fair warning: This is long ------------------------------------------ Born and raised...

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    37 / M / Straight / Seattle, Washington Match % Unknown Join to find out!

    please begin with kindnessI always choose kindness before everything else. ... Only kindness matters.

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    40 / F / Bisexual / Brooklyn, New York Match % Unknown Join to find out!

    ...home. [1.20.14] “I've never been lonely. I've been in a room -- I've felt suicidal. I've been depressed. I've felt awful -- awful beyond all -- but I never felt that one other person could enter that room and cure what was bothering me...or that any number of people could enter...

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    42 / M / Straight / Berkeley, California Match % Unknown Join to find out!

    Rhythm: to buildKindness: I just need itWisdom: none of this makes sense. More kindness please.Another six:1) Supplanting vestigial expectations with curiosity and lovingkindness.

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