In co-conspirators and
smart/tough cookies I am partial to strong bottoms, articulate
sadists, confident submissives, self-sufficient dominants, powerful
switches, and ethical sluts of all flavors with high EQ’s, a
twisted sense of humor, and strong opinions who want to talk sex,
activism,
Dominant personalities are
preferred. I am willing to do 24/7. I want someone I can serve,
please, someone who will not just enjoy their time with me, but
want/crave it as well. Dom's who see their subs as valuable and
treasured are more than welcome. Dom's who objectify, are hard core
sadists, or
to everyone including people you don't
know well isn't that more the definition of a doormatI've seen a
lot of sadists on the scene that play at being dominant, if someone
has a dominant personality they don't need to keep telling everyone
it will show through in RL anywayI see nothing wrong in
does not equate to dominant. There are refined, elegant
dominants who can take you to the outer edges of your awareness
without ever speaking above a whisper. In fact, not to put too fine
a point on it, you may have comefused the word "jackass" for
"dominant". ... most
talented sadists imaginable.
So many guys think that "Dominant" means being mean, cruel, or
abusive toward a girlI think this is just abusive people assuming
BDSM is a way of ... can do it
at any age if they're willing to invest a little bit of time and
effort and have the brass to declare themselves "experienced
sadists".
I will agree that female dommes who are not hard-edged
dominatrix-sadists are much less likely to advertise themselves as
"dominant" (even if they have it in them to be very good doms),
largely because the former is what most submissive men want, the
whole image of "femdom" being very male-centric.