I am experimenting with a
non-monogamous lifestyle.
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We're ethically non-monogamous or whatever you'd
like to call it.
& suchFor me, being ethically
non-monogamous includes not playing with people who aren't, even
when they're single. So, no monogamous folk, except for friendship.
(In theory, that's easy; in practice, it's easy for me when people
aren't available, but single monogamous people I'm attracted to
before I
forget: I'm monogamous and very keen ... somewhat, and I watch non-yuri things as
well. I'm very keen on seiyuu , so that's a large aspect of my
interest in anime. When I draw, it's often anime-inspired stuff,
too.A pet peeve of mine is when people say cartoons and anime are
synonymous.
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by ipsafictura
don't think non-monogamous people are more
enlightened, more comfortable with themselves, more sex-positive or
anything else of the kind. I don't think that people who are
monogamous are restrictive or anything else moronic like that.
Non-monogamous people like non-monogamy, monogamous people don't,
by Diacritic
Truthfullness would require them to say "I am non-monogamous at the
moment, but if I meet someone better I might decide to become
monogamous with them". That's what most people who are monogamous
do anyway, so claiming you are special for sleeping around until
you meet 'the one' is frankly just
by emote_control
being verbally castigated by monogamous people that they have
talked with, for the heinous crime of being non-monogamous.
This often happens right at the point of first contact. The
monogamous person doesn't even want to talk about the weather with
the non-monogamous person, and angrily
by pawnzz
were, and discovered
that there is a long tradition of relationships without these
limits and expectations: non-monogamous, or “open,”
relationships.I’m not trying to say that monogamous relationships
are bad, exactly, but there are a thousand kinds of relationships,
and we generally only
Comment by henryking59
Would your rant also be
essentially accurate if aimed at ALL NON-monogamous women, period?
Or even more accurately aimed at all non-monogamous PEOPLE out
there which poach unfairly on your hunting grounds?
Comment by alpha1971
non-monogamy has nothing to do with sexual preference. There are
monogamous people who are straight, gay and bi (um, not the same
ones at the same time), and non-monogamous folks who are straight,
gay and bi. Whilst it might conceivably true that more bi people
are non-monogamous, given the
Comment by NuttyIrishman
"poly," since
millions of monogamous people have multiple intimate but non-sexual
relationships. They're called intimate friends, blood brothers,
best friends forever, et cetera. In contrast, it clearly is more
monogamous, because a single sexual relationship is monogamous, and
multiple sexual
Comment by emote_control
to have paired up with a woman who is also
non-monogamous. It's bloody awful when a monogamous person
and a non-monogamous person marry. Someone is going to wind
up hurt and miserable eventually.Anyway, I do think that OKC needs
a mono/non-mono flag, even if one of the settings is "I'm
Comment by tacit
specifically
non-monogamous that they're definitely monogamous.That's true, but
it's certainly overwhelmingly likely that a given person who isn't
non-monogamous is indeed monogamous. If you're in Vegas, that's
definitely the way to bet.If there's someone you like who isn't
non-monogamous, there's
Comment by emote_control
advice, but
I also think that it's important to note that just because someone
isn't specifically non-monogamous that they're definitely
monogamous.If there's someone you like who isn't non-monogamous,
there's nothing wrong with disclosing your relationship status and
then asking them if they'd be
Comment by Lord_GrayWolf
monogamous ... honest
non-monogamy, non-traditional relationships, and non-traditional
sex. Lesbian Polyfidelity : A Pleasure Guide for the Woman Whose
Heart Is Open to Multiple, Concurrent Sexualoves, by Celeste West.
This was the first book (now there's another one) about honest
non
Comment by Marmelodov
on TV are in monogamous relationships
can you name who are "content, happy, healthy, and well-adjusted?"
If you thought hard, you may be able to come up with the odd one or
two, but given that there are a lot more people in monogamous
relationships than in non-monogamous relationships, that makes