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you, me, a length of sturdy rope and a safeword .

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The depths of your submission Test

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The can You be my Dominatrix Test

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Just Say When

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Whether or not the dom needs a safeword depends on the particulars of play, IG. Some people need clear / ritualized stopping points to their roleplay. Anyway, whether by safeword or by simply stopping, both parties retain the power to end the scene at any time.

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Safewords

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I would really recommend using a safeword. I understand where you are coming from -- the safeword makes you feel like you have "ultimate" control over the situation and you ... Without a safeword, you are risking the possibility that your partner may accidentally hurt you.

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Is it right to force a sub into a slave relationship without consent?

Comment by the_cuddleslut

that safewords have real weight in court, and that a person who has agreed on a safeword but has not given it is legally communicating consent (which is the conceit which makes rape-play legal).I don't think that a rape-scene with a safeword is "just a game"; or at least, that one without a safeword

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Would you ever consider being in a healthy commited Master/Slave relationship?

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I can honestly say I have never had to safeword. I have one, but because He knows me as well as He does, a safeword really is not necessary. If I ever did have to safeword, not only would the scene most likely end, but there would be a discussion after on what happened.

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Safewords

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  The main purpose of the safeword in MY sessions are generally not to show a lack of trust or true ... I will also occasionally "parody" the safeword, commonly referred to as "being the brat."In a situation where the safeword was "purple," i would be in a situation where I would suddenly

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Safewords

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Safewords. ... No safeword is going to untie you by itself. Having a safeword lets the Dominant let go, to a certain extent.

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