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My Self-Summary I am without doubt described as a dreadfully eccentric (In a non-bag lady/cat lady sort of way) music nerd, holed up gamer gal, and overall mother hen to all my friends. At one point in life I went to college with the intention to finish my degree in something English based, as the...
What I’m doing with my life Work, school, gym, spending time with friends. That is pretty much my life right now. I work as a CNA at a care facility in Northeast Portland. While I kind of hate the work I do, I do love the people I've met there. Working with and meeting people of the older generations has enriched...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here I'm kinky as hell. Most of that revolves around power dynamics. It's not absolutely necessary for you to be cool with that, but I appreciate an open mind. I spent years thinking I was transgendered. I don't anymore. I also used to be a militant advocate of bisexuality and radical...
What I’m doing with my life Working days and nights or days or nights or neither. I prefer nights, whether for work or for play, and resent being made to choose when I am. I am probably not illegally exploring abandoned buildings unless you can time-travel and know me better than I know myself, but I would like to be and if...
My Self-Summary I hate talking about myself...i always draw a blank even though obviously I know myself better than anyone else. I can be pretty quiet and I guess it comes off as being bitchy. My favorite photographer is Joel-Peter Witkin and I'm sure I'll think of something more interesting to put here in the...
What I’m doing with my life I've been unemployed for a while, but I have some savings, so I'm alright. Most days are spent hanging out with friends or sitting at home keeping myself busy with internet/video games/whatever. Occasionally, I think to myself, "Self, you should get a job" as well. I don't have any crazy goals or...
You should message me if There are a lot of cliches that show up in this section, too. Message me if you are bored during the week and want to go shopping or eat lunch or have a drink or hang out. Absolutely message me if you like to play music - we can play together. I would love that! It will be fun!
My favorite books, movies, music, and food (A) way too many to list, but a few favorites include: watchmen (yeah the movie? teh suck); "special topics in calamity physics" - marisha pessl; "the dogs of babel" - carolyn parkhurst ; "house of sand and fog" - andre dubus III; "like the red panda" - andrea seigel; "invisible monsters" -...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here Many people point out that if something is typed out for all the Internets to read, then it's no longer private, is it? My response is, this space is reserved for the most private revelation you're willing to expose to the rapacious gaze of OKCupid users everywhere, which makes it a relative...
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On a typical Friday night I am I always find fun stuff to do! I love to go out dancing at 80s or Goth/Industrial clubs and ever on the search for a good electronica dance night, some Ladytron , Peaches , Miss Kittin etc. If I'm lucky, it is a Dirty Queer night or there is a Love Tribe event or FetNight to attend....
