“The Google of
online dating”
— The Boston Globe
“Completely free”
— TIME
“A favorite hangout
for internet goers”
— The Village Voice
“A perfect example
of the Web 2.0 revolution”
— New York Post
“The Google of
online dating”
— The Boston Globe
“Completely free”
— TIME
“A favorite hangout
for internet goers”
— The Village Voice
“A perfect example
of the Web 2.0 revolution”
— New York Post
The Backrubber Deliberate Gentle Sex Dreamer (DGSD)

Lusty but indirect. Kind, but also using friendship as a means to sex. Oh, that feels gooood. You are The Backrubber.
We call you “The Backrubber” because you straddle that fine line between coming on to someone and just treating her nicely. Backrubs are just one example; you’d meet for coffee, or talk about books/movies, or even argue a little bit, all the while mostly preferring to screw.
Your indirect approach is not some evil trickery, but rather a result of your open mind. You’d enjoy either love or sex, but the latter definitely doesn’t require the former. While you are responsible and ambitious, you absolutely DON’T have uptight views on relationships. So ultimately, you just enjoy a woman, and let things take their course. If she wants you, great. If not, that’s fine too.
Though you’re not thinking too much about Love at this point in your life, odds are, when the time comes, you’ll be very happy settling down. Your ideal mate is gentle and horny, just like you.
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| 16 Male Results | 16 Female Results | ||
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The Backrubber
Deliberate Gentle Sex Dreamer (DGSD) |
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The Intern
Deliberate Gentle Sex Dreamer (DGSD) |
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The Bachelor
Deliberate Gentle Sex Master (DGSM) |
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The Dirty Little Secret
Deliberate Gentle Sex Master (DGSM) |
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The Slow Dancer
Deliberate Gentle Love Dreamer (DGLD) |
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The Sonnet
Deliberate Gentle Love Dreamer (DGLD) |
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The Gentleman
Deliberate Gentle Love Master (DGLM) |
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The Maid of Honor
Deliberate Gentle Love Master (DGLM) |
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The Billy Goat
Deliberate Brutal Sex Dreamer (DBSD) |
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The Nymph
Deliberate Brutal Sex Dreamer (DBSD) |
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The 5-Night Stand
Deliberate Brutal Sex Master (DBSM) |
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The Stiletto
Deliberate Brutal Sex Master (DBSM) |
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The Mixed Messenger
Deliberate Brutal Love Dreamer (DBLD) |
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The Priss
Deliberate Brutal Love Dreamer (DBLD) |
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The False Messiah
Deliberate Brutal Love Master (DBLM) |
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The Battleaxe
Deliberate Brutal Love Master (DBLM) |
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The Poolboy
Random Gentle Sex Dreamer (RGSD) |
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The Nurse
Random Gentle Sex Dreamer (RGSD) |
|
The Playboy
Random Gentle Sex Master (RGSM) |
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The Playstation
Random Gentle Sex Master (RGSM) |
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The Boy Next Door
Random Gentle Love Dreamer (RGLD) |
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The Window Shopper
Random Gentle Love Dreamer (RGLD) |
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The Loverboy
Random Gentle Love Master (RGLM) |
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The Peach
Random Gentle Love Master (RGLM) |
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The Last Man on Earth
Random Brutal Sex Dreamer (RBSD) |
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Half-Cocked
Random Brutal Sex Dreamer (RBSD) |
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The Hornivore
Random Brutal Sex Master (RBSM) |
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Genghis Khunt
Random Brutal Sex Master (RBSM) |
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The Manchild
Random Brutal Love Dreamer (RBLD) |
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The Wild Rose
Random Brutal Love Dreamer (RBLD) |
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The Vapor Trail
Random Brutal Love Master (RBLM) |
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The Sudden Departure
Random Brutal Love Master (RBLM) |