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30 Mount Pleasant, IA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 8
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on University
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Bisexual/Polyamorous/Switch

In general, I am seeking like-minded friends and intellectual conversation. Maybe even some friends to hang out with.

Aside from being polyamorous, I am in the BDSM lifestyle as well.

I am once again..seeking a girlfriend. At this point, I've stopped holding my breath. Just kind of tired of trying so hard only to have my effort thrown back in my face so you know, I'm seeking but don't waste my time if you're not willing to put the effort in to show me that you're actually interested in dating me and not jerking me around like I'm some toy to be screwed around with.

I am very open-minded, non-judgmental.

~ I enjoy a broad range of interests in Art, History, and Science.
~ I am a gamer.
~ I am an Artist.
~ I am a proud owner of ArtworkandTrinkets, which is a shop on Etsy.
~ I am a BDSM Lifestyle enthusiast.
~ I enjoy listening to music.
~ I also enjoy staying in occasionally to curl up and watch a movie or two.
~ Reading as well as listening to Audiobooks.
~ Outdoor activities such as hiking, going for walks, biking, swimming, Gardening etc.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working on developing my Etsy shop featuring my own Jewelry and artwork. Come check it out!

I am also taking care of my beautiful baby boy and eagerly awaiting the time when I get to see my wonderful girlfriend. <3
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, gardening, anything art-related, back rubs, cheering people up, being a klutz, and being a total goofball when I'm in a good mood and feeling silly. :3
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My outgoing personality, probably my chattiness as well lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
{Favorite Authors}
- H. P. Lovecraft
- H. G. Wells
- Jules Verne
- K.W. Jeter
- Tim Powers
- James Blaylock
- William Gibson and Bruce Sterling
- Michael Moorcock
- Steven King name a few.

- American Horror Story
- American Dad
- Constantine
-Doctor Who
- Family Guy
- Grimm
- History Channel
- The Big Bang Theory
- The Ellen DeGeneres Show
- The Simpsons
- The Rachael Ray Show
- The Walking Dead (AMC)
- Z Nation
- Forever

Video games
- Fallout/Fallout New Vegas
- Oblivion/Skyrim
- Halo Series
- Sims 3
- Alice in Wonderland
Table top games
- AD&D/D&D
- VTM (used to play it all the time back in high school)
- D20
Board games
- Backgammon
- Chess
- Monopoly
.. open to playing others as well, but those are the ones I play the most when I can.

- Japanese Cuisine (Sushi, Tempura anything, Rice balls...)
- Chinese Cuisine
- Pizza
- Spaghetti
- Pan cooked apple Pork Chops
- Rosemary & Thyme Oven roasted Chicken
- Coconut Chicken Curry
- Home cooked foods

{Favorite things}
- Flower: Orchids, any potted plant. I don't care for cut flowers, they fade too fast.
- Movie Genre: Horror
- Music: Alternative Rock, Classic Rock
- Favorite thing to do with a partner: Snuggles!
- Favorite treats: Anything chocolate
To be continued...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My beautiful baby boy Liam <3
2. My husband and girlfriend. <3
3. laughter
4. Art
5. positivity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Artwork & Jewelry design concepts
- Recipes I'd like to try
- things I'd like to do with friends instead of sitting at home...

And whatever else that may pop up in the news or conversations.

I also tend to wonder why it is that people still confuse Polyamory with Polygamy or why people assume things they haven't given me a chance to explain.

I also think of all the things I'd love to do in my life still like go to Ireland (also to research my ancestry there and in England/Scotland too!), Japan, and Hawaii!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A.) Settling down at home (usually, unless I have someone I can go out with) on a project I've been wanting to work on, or B.) relaxing watching a movie with or without hubby (he's at work every other weekend), or else C.) I'm on Second Life chatting with friends and role-playing. (Screen name is BadKitty85)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Despite the groups who like to think that Bisexuals and Switches don't exist.. hate to break it to ya, but we do exist. :)

And I'm DAMN proud of it.

I am equally attracted to both men and women, despite being married. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm any less bisexual.

Being a Switch in the BDSM lifestyle is who I am.. it is dependent on my mood and the person that I am involved with that determines my role and until I get to know someone, I reserve the right to be approached and otherwise spoken to as an equal to any Dominants out there.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are interested in being friends or to chat about similar interests. I'm game! are interested in learning more about my artwork and what I may have for sale.

...have the capacity to use your words and you enjoy intelligent conversation, go right ahead and message! I look forward to speaking with you! :)