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29 F Mount Pleasant, IA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:40am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a Bisexual/Polyamorous/Switch with dominant tendencies when dating other women.

I am open to a new Female/female relationship, preferably in person as online just isn't enough for me any longer.

In general, I am seeking like-minded friends, intellectual conversation, and possibly in the near future a Female/female relationship.

Aside from being polyamorous, I am in the BDSM lifestyle as well and would like to find a female partner who is either a S/switch or else a submissive to attend local events with among other things. I am also not opposed to a Dominant partner either. So it works out either way. :)

I am very open-minded, non-judgmental.

~ I enjoy a broad range of interests in Art, History, and Science.
~ I am a gamer.
~ I am an Artist.
~ I enjoy listening to music.
~ I also enjoy staying in occasionally to curl up and watch a movie or two.
~ Reading as well as listening to Audiobooks.
~ Outdoor activities such as hiking, going for walks, biking, swimming, Gardening etc.
What I’m doing with my life
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Seeking a girlfriend/partner, spending time with my beautiful and intelligent son, and working on starting my own Etsy store featuring my own Jewelry and artwork.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, gardening, anything art-related, back rubs, cheering people up, being a klutz, and being a total goofball when I'm in a good mood and feeling silly. :3
The first things people usually notice about me
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My outgoing personality, probably my chattiness as well lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite genres are:
Art and design, Audiobooks, Classics, Comics and graphic novels, Craft and hobbies, Fantasy, Fiction, Food and drink, Health, mind and body, Historical fiction, Horror, House and garden, Philosophy, Poetry, Sci-fi, Science and nature, Short stories, and Thrillers.

{Movies I enjoy}
- Harry Potter (Yes, I did enjoy the movies as well as the books)
- The Boondock Saints (all of them)
- Pirates of the Caribbean (All of them)
- Playing for Keeps
- Rise of the Guardians
- Beautiful Creatures
- Hitchcock
- Hansel And Gretel 1 & 2
- The Impossible
- Parental Guidance
- Wreck-It Ralph
- Pitch Perfect
- Silent Hill 1 & 2
- Judge Dredd
- Olympus Has Fallen
- The Croods
- World War Z
- The Internship
- Scott Pilgrim Vs. the World
- The Lone Ranger
- Despicable Me 2

- Adult Swim
- Armywives
- American Pickers
- American Dad
- Conan O'Brien
- Cake Boss
- Comedy Central
-Doctor Who
- Food Network
- Family Guy
- Game of Thrones
- History Channel
- LA Ink
- New Amsterdam
- Stargate Universe
- Supernatural
- The Big Bang Theory
- The Client List
- The Ellen DeGeneres Show
- Today Show
- The Simpsons
- The Rachael Ray Show
- The Walking Dead (AMC)
- Weeds

{Video Games}
- Fallout/Fallout New Vegas
- Oblivion/Skyrim
- Halo Series
- Sims 3
- Alice in Wonderland

- Japanese Cuisine (Sushi, *Tempura anything, *Rice balls...)
- Chinese Cuisine
- Italian Cuisine
- Irish Cuisine
- Pizza
- *Spaghetti
- *Pan cooked apple Pork Chops
- *Rosemary & Thyme Oven roasted Chicken
- *Coconut Chicken Curry
- Homemade Cuisine
(* = Personal favorite to cook)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My beautiful baby boy Liam <3
2. My husband
3. Friends
4. Art
5. My medication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Artwork concepts
Recipes I'd like to try
And whatever else that may pop up in the news or conversations.

I also tend to wonder why it is that people still confuse Polyamory with Polygamy or why people assume things they haven't given me a chance to explain.

I also think of all the things I'd love to do in my life still like go to Ireland (also to research my ancestry there and in England/Scotland too!), Japan, and Hawaii!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Currently: Working on unpacking and organizing. Building up my stock for my new store that I will be setting up soon. Spending time with my little one and getting to know my new neighbors.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am poly and I would like to point out that there are many common misconceptions about loving someone who is poly (or maybe just dating them).

[snagged from Fetlife by goodghirl]

1. I don’t need to share the love I have with one person with you. If I fall in love with someone new a whole new batch of love will pop up for them, I don’t know where it comes from it just does.

2. I don’t NEED to be in multiple relationships at one time

3. Not being in multiple relationships doesn’t mean I’m suddenly not poly

4. If I don’t have multiple relationships for a long time I’m not cured

5. I don’t want to have casual sex with everyone with a pulse

6. I’m not looking for someone who can give me everything I need

7. I never decided to go poly, I am poly, I just am.

8. I’m not greedy

9. I don’t have commitment issues

10. I don’t need to rank the people I’m in relationships with they’re all equally important.

11. To be in a relationship with me you don’t need to be poly

12. You don’t need to be in a relationship with the people I’m in a relationship with

13. I don’t have a high sex drive so I’m not poly because I can find someone to satisfy my insatiable urges

14. Loving people can never be a bad thing

15. My loving someone isn’t any less valid than someone who is mono loving someone

16. When things don’t work it’s not easier because I have another person to get me over it – cut me and I will bleed red the same as you.

17. I don't think I'm better or worse than mono people, I don't think I'm any people I'm just a human like everyone else
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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...wanting to learn more about me because my profile caught your attention and now you cannot stop thinking about me and want to get to know me further than what I publicly share.