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29 F Mount Pleasant, IA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Bisexual/Polyamorous/Switch

I am open to a new Female/female relationship, preferably in person as online just isn't enough for me any longer.

In general, I am seeking like-minded friends, intellectual conversation, and possibly in the near future a Female/female relationship.

Aside from being polyamorous, I am in the BDSM lifestyle as well and would like to find a female partner who is either a S/switch or else a submissive to attend local events with among other things. I am also not opposed to a Dominant partner either. So it works out either way. :)

I am very open-minded, non-judgmental.

~ I enjoy a broad range of interests in Art, History, and Science.
~ I am a gamer.
~ I am an Artist.
~ I am a BDSM Lifestyle enthusiast.
~ I enjoy listening to music.
~ I also enjoy staying in occasionally to curl up and watch a movie or two.
~ Reading as well as listening to Audiobooks.
~ Outdoor activities such as hiking, going for walks, biking, swimming, Gardening etc.
What I’m doing with my life
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Seeking a girlfriend/partner and working on starting my own Etsy store featuring my own Jewelry and artwork. Come check out my Etsy shop!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, gardening, anything art-related, back rubs, cheering people up, being a klutz, and being a total goofball when I'm in a good mood and feeling silly. :3
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My outgoing personality, probably my chattiness as well lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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{Favorite Authors}
- H. P. Lovecraft
- H. G. Wells
- Jules Verne
- K.W. Jeter
- Tim Powers
- James Blaylock
- William Gibson and Bruce Sterling
- Michael Moorcock
- Steven King name a few.

- American Dad
-Doctor Who
- Family Guy
- History Channel
- The Big Bang Theory
- The Ellen DeGeneres Show
- The Simpsons
- The Rachael Ray Show
- The Walking Dead (AMC)
- Z Nation
- Forever

Video games
- Fallout/Fallout New Vegas
- Oblivion/Skyrim
- Halo Series
- Sims 3
- Alice in Wonderland
Table top games
- AD&D/D&D
- VTM (used to play it all the time back in high school)
- D20
Board games
- Backgammon
- Chess
- Monopoly
.. open to playing others as well, but those are the ones I play the most when I can.

- Japanese Cuisine (Sushi, Tempura anything, Rice balls...)
- Chinese Cuisine
- Pizza
- Spaghetti
- Pan cooked apple Pork Chops
- Rosemary & Thyme Oven roasted Chicken
- Coconut Chicken Curry
- Home cooked foods
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My beautiful baby boy Liam <3
2. laughter
3. Friends
4. Art
5. positivity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Artwork & Jewelry design concepts
- Recipes I'd like to try
- things I'd like to do with friends instead of sitting at home...

And whatever else that may pop up in the news or conversations.

I also tend to wonder why it is that people still confuse Polyamory with Polygamy or why people assume things they haven't given me a chance to explain.

I also think of all the things I'd love to do in my life still like go to Ireland (also to research my ancestry there and in England/Scotland too!), Japan, and Hawaii!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A.) Settling down at home (usually, unless I have someone I can go out with) on a project I've been wanting to work on, or B.) relaxing watching a movie with or without hubby (he's at work every other weekend), or else C.) I'm on Second Life chatting with friends and role-playing. (Screen name is BadKitty85)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Despite the groups who like to think that Bisexuals and Switches don't exist.. hate to break it to ya, but we do exist. :)

And I'm DAMN proud of it.

I am equally attracted to both men and women, despite being married. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm any less bisexual.

Being a Switch in the BDSM lifestyle is who I am.. it is dependent on my mood and the person that I am involved with that determines my role and until I get to know someone, I reserve the right to be approached and otherwise spoken to as an equal to any Dominants out there.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are interested in being friends or even *gasp* interested in more than just friends.

...wanting to learn more about me because my profile caught your attention and now you cannot stop thinking about me and want to get to know me further than what I publicly share.