Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Bisexual/Polyamorous/Switch
In general, I am seeking like-minded friends
. Maybe even some friends to hang out with.
Aside from being polyamorous, I am in the BDSM lifestyle as
I am once again..seeking a girlfriend. At this point, I've stopped
holding my breath. Just kind of tired of trying so hard only to
have my effort thrown back in my face so you know, I'm seeking but
don't waste my time if you're not willing to put the effort in to
show me that you're actually interested in dating me and not
jerking me around like I'm some toy to be screwed around
I am very open-minded
~ I enjoy a broad range of interests in Art
, and Science
~ I am a gamer.
~ I am an Artist.
~ I am a proud owner of ArtworkandTrinkets, which is a shop on
~ I am a BDSM Lifestyle enthusiast.
~ I enjoy listening to music.
~ I also enjoy staying in occasionally to curl up and watch a movie
~ Reading as well as listening to Audiobooks.
~ Outdoor activities such as hiking
, going for walks
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently working on developing my Etsy shop featuring my own
Jewelry and artwork. Come check it out!
I am also taking care of my beautiful baby boy and eagerly awaiting
the time when I get to see my wonderful girlfriend. <3
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, gardening, anything art-related, back rubs, cheering
people up, being a klutz, and being a total goofball when I'm in a
good mood and feeling silly. :3
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My outgoing personality, probably my chattiness as well lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- H. P. Lovecraft
- H. G. Wells
- Jules Verne
- K.W. Jeter
- Tim Powers
- James Blaylock
- William Gibson and Bruce Sterling
- Michael Moorcock
- Steven King
...to name a few.
- American Horror Story
- American Dad
- Family Guy
- History Channel
- The Big Bang Theory
- The Ellen DeGeneres Show
- The Simpsons
- The Rachael Ray Show
- The Walking Dead (AMC)
- Z Nation
- Fallout/Fallout New Vegas
- Halo Series
- Sims 3
- Alice in Wonderland
Table top games
- VTM (used to play it all the time back in high school)
.. open to playing others as well, but those are the ones I play
the most when I can.
- Japanese Cuisine (Sushi, Tempura anything, Rice balls...)
- Chinese Cuisine
- Pan cooked apple Pork Chops
- Rosemary & Thyme Oven roasted Chicken
- Coconut Chicken Curry
- Home cooked foods
- Flower: Orchids, any potted plant. I don't care for cut flowers,
they fade too fast.
- Movie Genre: Horror
- Music: Alternative Rock, Classic Rock
- Favorite thing to do with a partner: Snuggles!
- Favorite treats: Anything chocolate
To be continued...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My beautiful baby boy Liam <3
2. My husband and girlfriend. <3
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Artwork & Jewelry design concepts
- Recipes I'd like to try
- things I'd like to do with friends instead of sitting at
And whatever else that may pop up in the news or
I also tend to wonder why it is that people still confuse Polyamory
with Polygamy or why people assume things they haven't given me a
chance to explain.
I also think of all the things I'd love to do in my life still like
go to Ireland (also to research my ancestry there and in
England/Scotland too!), Japan, and Hawaii!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A.) Settling down at home (usually, unless I have someone I can go
out with) on a project I've been wanting to work on, or B.)
relaxing watching a movie with or without hubby (he's at work every
other weekend), or else C.) I'm on Second Life chatting with
friends and role-playing. (Screen name is BadKitty85)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Despite the groups who like to think that Bisexuals and Switches
don't exist.. hate to break it to ya, but we do exist. :)
And I'm DAMN proud of it.
I am equally attracted to both men and women, despite being
married. Just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm any less
Being a Switch in the BDSM lifestyle is who I am.. it is dependent
on my mood and the person that I am involved with that determines
my role and until I get to know someone, I reserve the right to be
approached and otherwise spoken to as an equal to any Dominants out
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are interested in being friends or to chat about similar
interests. I'm game!
...you are interested in learning more about my artwork and what I
may have for sale.
...have the capacity to use your words and you enjoy intelligent
conversation, go right ahead and message! I look forward to
speaking with you! :)
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