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20 M Preston, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:14am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm Tom,

I like to learn, and I love competition. I try to make that a quality, rather than something obnoxious and abrasive. The idea of becoming a better person interests me, so, in everything I do, I'm generally looking to learn something, to get better at something, and to develop myself.

I value reading and physical exercise; I find that my mental state reflects my physical state and I'm at my happiest when I'm exercising regularly. For that reason, I exercise six times a week, balancing cardio and resistance training. I don't do it to look better, I do it to feel better, and to be better. The aesthetics don't interest me, and I certainly don't "check in" at the gym on facebook.

I love meeting new people and seeing the world from other perspectives. I value empathy, understanding and acceptance. I value ambition, I value dreams and the pursuit of them. I love passion. No matter what you do, if you love doing it, if you live for it, it brings a smile to my face. From knitting to absailing to playing competitive sports to playing competitive video games, and everything between and outside of those things, passion is priceless and I love yours.

If you're on the outside looking in, I'd be glad to know you!
What I’m doing with my life
Studying Philosophy and Psychology at the University of Manchester.

Filling the gaps with regular exercise, spending time with dear friends, and playing League of Legends.

I also have a fine-dining habit that my student budget cannot sustain.
I’m really good at
Getting better! I pick things up pretty quickly whenever I get a new hobby because I'm lucky enough to be good at applying myself and learning in effective ways.

With that being said my moniker for League of Legends is "Modest", so this section is a contradiction in itself! I'm certainly not very good at League. Platinum life.
The first things people usually notice about me
A lot of people compliment my teeth, so I guess I'm smiling!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Preface: I like a lot of stuff and won't waste your time or lose your interest by listing them all. Lists are basically a big dick competition to see who can claim to like the most impressive/trendy media anyway. /cynic

Books: When Nietzsche Wept, Beyond Good and Evil, Heavier Than Heaven

Movies: The Girl Next Door, 10 Things I Hate About You, Romeo & Juliet, 8 Mile, EVA 2.22

Shows: Code Geass, Attack on Titan, To Aru Majutsu No Index, Azumanga Daioh, Toradora!, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann, Evangelion, I don't watch these religiously but have really enjoyed them when I've seen them, and I don't really watch much TV.

Music: Beck, Kendrick Lamar, Placebo, Smashing Pumpkins

Food: CLEAN: pasta/pesto/chicken/vegetables, stewing steak/potatoes/vegetables, salmon/vegetables. DURRRTY: pizza, chicken tikka paneersala, STEAK AND CHIPS FROM A GOOD STEAKHOUSE, I WILL DROP BIG DIMES FOR PRIME CUTS, IT'S A VICE. Sorry vegetarians, I love you.
The six things I could never do without

a physical outlet

some space every now and then

a listener

a good ole fashioned rival to push me

hey man how about a city to explore
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why it feels so good to step outside and look around after you've been indoors for a prolonged time.

Whether the concept of potential is exciting or scary.
On a typical Friday night I am
Finding a nice place to eat with some friends, then heading back to a buddy's place to hang and shoot the breeze in a relaxed, intimate setting with good company. Not big into the whole clubbing/drinking deal. I could do it, it just doesn't grab me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
putting private topics on a pedestal reinforces taboos dog

I don't have anything to hide, would be weird to arbitrarily select something and call it "private". I'll try for the sake of having a "complete" profile though.

I find mental health care extremely interesting, important, and underdeveloped. Our societies and cultures need to catch up our mental health services to match our other medical services and stop this uncomfortable gag-order approach of marginalising the mentally ill.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–25
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Honestly, if you've read this far, you've already decided whether you're gonna message me or not.

I'd be happy to hear from you, so get at me

what ya waiting what ya waiting what ya waiting what ya waiting fo-or?