Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello, I’m Stephen.
I reckon everyone’s the worst judge of their own character, but
it’s the only thing you’ve got to go on. So….
Bit of an odd ball, I like it. I think it’s weird not to be
Deep thinker. Socialist leaning. Anti-theist. But despite these
very serious things I reckon I’m a lot of fun. Still a bit of a
hedonist at heart.
Been asked recently to choose five words to describe myself, I came
Empathetic, Inquisitive, Ethical, Cheerful and Bright
It was for an interview though, so it's all lies.
I don't think I'm very straight acting... but then I meet other gay
guys and I'm Mr T in comparison. So yeah, I guess I'm a masculine
Done a bit of travelling. South East Asia. Plan to do a lot more
when money and time allow.
Big nerd. I love watching documentaries. Physics in particular.
Spend a lot more time playing computer games than a man of my age
probably should but whatever. I’d ruin you on Halo.
I don't drive. I have no aspiration to... ever. I think we have
enough cars already. I cycle everywhere. I'm getting comments on
how nice my arse is looking, I put it down to this fact.
Recently been inspired by another OKcupid user to take the
Myers-Briggs personality test. I came out as ESFJ the "Care-giver".
Kinda makes me sound like a pussy... but it's actually a little
spooky how accurate it gets most of it. So I guess I'm looking for
a masculine Artist (ISFP) or Idealist ( INFP)?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well... I'm at an interesting time in my life. Good things are
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to just about anyone. Making quiet and shy people come out
of their shells. I'm much more a fan of the insecure than of the
Drinking, I'm VERY good at drinking.
Pissing people off while drinking and arguing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my hybrid ginger beard. Scottish/Irish heritage has left
me with this curse. That is the only ginger hair on my body
though... in case you were wondering.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: We Need to Talk About Kevin - Lionel Shriver, Brave New
World - Aldous Huxley, His Dark Materials Trilogy - Philip Pullman,
1984 - George Orwell, End of Faith - Sam Harris, God Delusion -
Richard Dawkins, anything by Chuck Palahniuk... and more
Movies: V for Vendetta, The Mist, The Aliens series, Watchmen,
Requiem for a Dream, Crash, City of God, The Thing, Withnail &
I, Open Hearts, Fight Club... and more
Shows: American Dad, Drawn Together, Peep show, Spaced, Utopia,
Fresh Meat, Black Books... and more
Music: Really eclectic. From gay electro rock (garbage) to drum and
bass (Black Sun Empire) to grunge (sound garden) to indie (snow
patrol). Love a lot of house and pop at the moment... maybe I'm
losing touch... or just losing my music hang ups.
Food? Yes, please. I'm very easy with food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm really not very materialistic... I'll come back to this after a
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Super massive black holes, neutron stars, galaxies colliding, what
other dimensions look like, how I’d make the nicest dictator ever,
how I could make the perfect justice and political system if I
could only read minds!... and some really filthy sweaty things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not much of a routine person. If I'm not working and I've got money
then I guess I'll be with friends either in or out. If I'm poor
I'll be gaming it on either my PC or xbox.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very curious about polyamory
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have any inclination. If I'm on here I'm usually at work
killing time, so please feel free to distract / entertain / arouse
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